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AIBU?

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To think we both don't need to do the school run??

86 replies

cantstandhimargh · 02/03/2022 09:08

Need a good old rant before I loose it! 35 weeks pregnant and I've had enough of OH I would quite honestly like him out the house until I have this baby.

I can appreciate I am probably hormonal but I can't see the point in us both needing to do the school run. I get up in the morning do breakfast last nights washing up and fold washing (he promised to do it last night but didn't and spoke to his mum and brother on the phone for 2 hours instead) and I get the kids ready. All he has to do is drop them off but NO apparently I am selfish because DS will have to stand in the rain for a few minutes. So what!!!! He won't die. DD goes in at 8:45 but by time you walk DS round aswell you will probably only be waiting a minute or two (he goes in at 8:50)

He has been on his phone all morning and made the kids late as he was trying to get some limited edition trainers.

I can't be fucked with him at all, the only thing he really does is the school run and I still have to beg him to do that.

He kicked the door like a child before leaving then doing crazy signs at me through the window. He's like a child!

Please am AIBU?

Apologies if my punctuation is horrible I've just had enough and needed to get it out!

OP posts:
Dibbydoos · 02/03/2022 20:18

I'd suggest counselling not because it sounds like you can improve the relationship, but so someone else tells him he's an AH.

Bless you and the kids. We really do bring our boys up badly don't we?!

rainbowunicorn · 02/03/2022 20:25

Does he not have a job to go to?

Lilymossflower · 02/03/2022 20:41

These feelings aren't coming from your hormones, OP.
These feelings are coming from him being a selfish, self absorbed dickhead. Honestly. He should be waiting on you hand and foot, you are carrying his child for goodness sakes. Not kicking doors, making crazy signs and behaving like an immature dipshit. I'm sorry you have so many kids to look after and no adult in the household to help you !!

Fairislefandango · 02/03/2022 20:50

The thing is though when I speak to him about it he doesn't seem to understand.

Of course he understands, he just doesn't give a shit. What a pathetic excuse for a husband/father.

LadyCordeliaFitzgerald · 02/03/2022 21:00

I clicked thinking I’d be saying yabu because dh always wants to come on the school runs if he has a late morning or a day off. But good God OP, yours takes the biscuit. He’s a nasty little shite.

There’s no shame in cutting loose the dead weight when you’re trying to keep a ship afloat.

sillysmiles · 02/03/2022 21:19

He really is a prince among men!

Is this the behaviour you'd like your daughter to accept as normal? Is this how you'd like your son to behave as an adult?
If you think you wouldn't like your daughter to live with this type of man as an adult, why is it acceptable for you to put up with this crap?

TheRealityCheque · 02/03/2022 21:21

@fairylightsandwaxmelts

He kicked a door?

He's abusive.

Hmm
Lime37 · 02/03/2022 21:43

@77kidsandcounting what dose your experience have to do with anything I had spd and morning sickness for 8and a half months. Everyone’s experience is different

77kidsandcounting · 02/03/2022 21:45

@Lime37 we covered this.....about 9 hours agoConfused

whynotwhatknot · 02/03/2022 21:48

No yanbu hes a cunt

Cherrysoup · 02/03/2022 21:49

Are there any good bits to being with him? (Bar the finances if that’s a thought) Does he ever do any actual parenting?

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