Would you tolerate your DP/DH liking sexy photos of OW on SM

[Lollipop858]

I’ve read quite a few threads on here about peoples DPs/DHs liking scantily clad sexy pics of OW on Instagram/FB etc, so I’m genuinely curious…

Would this upset you?

YABU - no it wouldn’t
YANBU - yes I’d dump his ass

It's a bit sad and pathetic and a little bit sleazy, isn't it? That would be more of an issue for me. The liking/engaging with them feels a bit desperate somehow v just looking. Like he wants them to notice him or something.

@Geordie01

Assuming it's not OW aka other woman he's had an affair then you are being massively unreasonable. It's a picture, the insecurity on MN is sometimes unreal. Do you really think Kim Kardashian or the likes is going to be on the first plane over to run away with Keith from Leeds? Get over yourself. I just don't get this "how dare you look at another woman" / "LTB for looking at another woman" etc. and holier than thou attitude. I work in hospitality and can honestly say women on hen parties are 100 times 'thirstier' than men on stag parties. Christ I may start an AMA thread

The OP doesn't want him to do it. A lot of us wouldn't want our partners to do it. But presumably, in your eyes, that doesn't matter, because women should just let men do as they please. As long as 'Keith' doesn't leave us, and run off with another woman, then all is good. You will note that a lot of women on this thread would be quite happy for 'Keith' to run off, in fact they'd speed him on his way, if he did this, because they would find him a disrespectful embarassment and would no longer want him. Does that sound like a bunch of insecure women to you? Or women confident and secure enough to know they don't have to compromise their own values and wishes to desperately hang on to a man?