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What things are you guilty of nicking from hotels?

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Teadrinker11 · 13/02/2022 21:30

I'm definitely guilty of stealing things from hotel rooms. I never go for anything overly big, usually teabags, toilet roll and the toiletries when I leave.
What are you guilty of nicking from hotels or your workplace?

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Kshhuxnxk · 14/02/2022 10:23

@flowervest75

I also hope no one here has ever paid for their shopping but purposely didn’t scan the 20p shopping bag they’re meant to pay for. Seeing as ‘theft is theft,’ you’re nothing but a hypocrite🤷‍♀️
Emm no because theft is theft 20p or £20? I don't see what's difficult to understand.
Roadshiner · 14/02/2022 10:23

@CailleachGranda:
“A culture that steals and calls people "hun" perhaps”

@flowervest75 replied:
@CailleachGranda let’s not do that shall we. What culture advocates stealing?^

Does anyone know of a hotel that provides dictionaries in the rooms? We could point @flowervest75 in their direction and she could steal it to become enlightened as to the meaning of the noun “culture”.

(Clue: @CailleachGranda was referencing the MLM culture)

ClaraTheCelebrityPachyderm · 14/02/2022 10:25

@liveforsummer

I took a couple of big towels from the pool once. Had just moved back from another country with very little. This was years ago and I still have them now, huge and very good quality. I've no regrets 😬
You "stole" a couple of towels from the pool once. Any other crimes you want to admit to for a laugh?
Rosehugger · 14/02/2022 10:26

Why is taking the miniature toiletries stealing? they are provided for your use, you are supposed to take them.

liveforsummer · 14/02/2022 10:26

You "stole" a couple of towels from the pool once. Any other crimes you want to admit to for a laugh?

Nope, just the one

DrSbaitso · 14/02/2022 10:33

@Rosehugger

Why is taking the miniature toiletries stealing? they are provided for your use, you are supposed to take them.
It's not and I don't think anyone on the thread has said it is. Several hotel staff have said they're included in the room price; you've paid for them and they're there to be used.
daimbarsatemydogsbone · 14/02/2022 10:33

[quote Footsanitiser]**@Dragongirl10well it’s a good thing that I only stay in hotel chains as opposed to a small business then

I don't see how this makes a difference? All hotels have to pay for towels (that they presumably budget to be used for x number of times before replacing) whether a large chain or small boutique.[/quote]
Exactly- the rest of us pay for the thieves like shoplifting.

KaptainKaveman · 14/02/2022 10:33

@flowervest75

The people calling me thieves on here are actually making me laugh. For the 50th time, the whole thread is about what things you’ve NICKED from a hotel. As in, what things have you stolen/taken that doesn’t belong to you. Why then come along and tell me a I’m a thief as if that does anything for me. The whole reason I’ve commented is because I’ve nicked something. Reading is fundamental.

It’s like someone starting a thread to say how many times have you taken money off of the floor and not handed it into the police. I comment saying I always keep money that I see on the floor and loads of people come along saying ‘wow I can’t believe you do that’ even though that’s literally what the thread is aboutHmm very strange comprehension skills on here!

Don't be a dimwit, OP. The meaning of the thread is clear, but people are telling you that they disagree with the premise, which is that thieving is a laugh and a bit of a 'lol', in your words. They are entitled to tell you that and will continue to do so, if they want. Suck it up. If you announce yourself as a thief, prepared to be shot down for it. Expecting anything else is really pretty stupid.

There are hotel staff who have come on this board to explain that all costs incurred by theft have to be absorbed by the business and other customers. There isn't really anything very 'lol' about that, is there?

I hope if you have dc you don't encourage them to steal. I would be ashamed of having a thief for a parent. Your whole attitude, as if it's all a massive joke, is sickening. Being a thief is nothing to be proud of.

Thereareliterallynonamesleft · 14/02/2022 10:34

@Bumsnet22

If I get room service breakfast I always take any leftover tiny jars of jam home for my daughter and take biscuits for my son. They love my homecoming gifts Grin
My MIL always gives me tiny jars of jam and packets of hotel biscuits, despite me saying that I buy these things in Tesco (normal sized!) if I want them! Are you my MIL?! 😂
Womencanlift · 14/02/2022 10:37

I stayed in a hotel once that had a price list for many of the items talked about here. Very clearly stated that if any were missing when you checked out you would be charged.

And it was ridiculous prices too. I guess to put people off so £120 for the bathrobe, £50 for each towel etc

On the toiletries front. An ex of mine used to travel for work a lot and his team used to collect the miniatures and hand them into a homeless shelter who were very appreciative of them as they used to make up support bags for people who were sleeping rough and these were ideal

inheritancetrack · 14/02/2022 10:39

Teabags and coffee. Not stealing as I pay for them in the price of the hotel. I've seen people take towels and I've been tempted as they are lovely and big and fluffy but really wouldn't do this ever

MolkosTeenageAngst · 14/02/2022 10:40

If there are complimentary biscuits with the tea I will usually take any I haven’t eaten during my stay. Sometimes I take something for later from breakfast as well, for example last time I stayed at a hotel they had individually packaged croissants and I took one of them and a mini pot of jam to eat on the train on the way home.

I don’t usually take the mini toiletries as I know I won’t end up using them although I would assume I’d be welcome to. Definitely wouldn’t take anything like towels; I have a friend who did this when we stayed at an Airbnb once and I really shocked at her.

flowervest75 · 14/02/2022 10:40

*Do you want to share what else you steal? Throw in a "lol" if you must, just so we know it lighthearted

There isn't really anything very 'lol' about that, is there?*

What do people on MN have against the word lol? Is it forbidden or something or is it better for me to say ‘haha’ instead??
I forget most people are older than my mum on here that must be why🙄

flowervest75 · 14/02/2022 10:41

If I said lol to my grandma she’d pick up on it so maybe that’s what it is, interesting

LaChanticleer · 14/02/2022 10:44

I stay in hotels a lot for work. The toiletries are usually crap. Not worth using let alone taking home as a “treat”. Except one hai in Texas that uses Le Labo rose products. They were worth using. And I didn’t need to stash them - housekeeping just put new ones in the bathrooms each day, even when I hadn’t used a whole bottle of body lotion. That was a nice suite hotel.

DropYourSword · 14/02/2022 10:46

@flowervest75

If I said lol to my grandma she’d pick up on it so maybe that’s what it is, interesting
No, it's more that you're being deliberately goady and argumentative.

Other people have also said in this thread they've stolen things. You're the only one who is engaging in arguments with people.

That's more likely why.

MuffinStrops · 14/02/2022 10:48

@flowervest75

If you were the owner of a small hotel or B and B would you feel differently? Put yourself in their position. Why can’t you buy your own towels?

flowervest75 · 14/02/2022 10:57

@DropYourSword no one is being deliberately goady or arguing with people. People have CONSTANTLY @‘d me so I’ll obviously get a notification and then I respond. If that’s what you consider to be an argument then fair enough. Still no explanation as to why people seem to hate ‘lol’ on here but I guess me looking for an answer is looking for an argument ey

thegreylady · 14/02/2022 10:59

Just unused toiletries and biscuits. I have sometimes asked to take a couple of little pots of jam from breakfast as my dgc used to love them. I was always given a few to take.
Towels!!!

MuffinStrops · 14/02/2022 11:00

Because people who say lol and hun tend to be of a certain demographic. Maybe more of the demographic that steals things. Call it snobbish but that’s a perception that’s out there.

Don’t you care that what you’re doing is increasing costs for other people if you don’t care about hotel owners?

newbiename · 14/02/2022 11:00

@flowervest75

I also hope no one here has ever paid for their shopping but purposely didn’t scan the 20p shopping bag they’re meant to pay for. Seeing as ‘theft is theft,’ you’re nothing but a hypocrite🤷‍♀️
No , never not paid for a bag.
WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 14/02/2022 11:00

At one hotel I went to the shampoo was labelled "the best you've ever stolen" or words to that effect. It actually annoyed me because as they were individual containers (tubes so not easily refillable) they must budget for a new one each time. They're not going to leave a half used one with suds and strands of hair round it!

Just surmising, but I wonder if there may be some psychology at play here. It might be a deliberate establishing of boundaries - i.e. if they have a little joke about 'stealing' the consumables that are included in the price, that may give people pause for thought before actually stealing non-consumable items.

let’s not start getting offensive over some hotel towels

How am I the one being offensive and not the one committing the theft?! Depending on how much stealing may or may not otherwise be a routine part of your lifestyle, try that one as a defence with the police: tell them that they are the bad guys for trying to stop you and not you for actually breaking the law.

I also hope no one here has ever paid for their shopping but purposely didn’t scan the 20p shopping bag they’re meant to pay for. Seeing as ‘theft is theft,’ you’re nothing but a hypocrite

But like with the theft of glasses from pubs, you're assuming that those of us condemning thefts of higher-value goods must also be stealing lower-value ones - which you obviously consider pettier - without any grounds for it.

Adults know that the shopping bags now have to be paid for - the shop is legally required to do so. They actually usually give you two opportunities to 'not forget' - by allowing you to scan them as part of your shopping before going to 'Pay now' or afterwards, when they ask you to confirm how many new bags you used (if not already scanned). You have to actively select 'no bags' if you brought your own, so no excuses that you forgot whatsoever.

As it happens, I saw a woman in Asda a couple of weeks ago being stopped by security as she tried to leave the store and it was clear from the noisy altercation that everybody stopped to watch - between her, the security man and the till attendant - that she'd taken several new bags and deliberately not paid for them. She was blustering that she 'hadn't realised' you had to pay, then changed her story to make out they were being petty when she'd spent however much with them. Her two young kids were upset and crying at it all, and of course she blamed them (the store staff) for that as she played the 'young mum' card.

She was taken back to the till to pay for the stolen bags - luckily for her, the store didn't take it any further than that - and she scurried out with her kids soon after, looking utterly, utterly humiliated and extremely embarrassed. As I said, it was just the store complying with the law as required of them as retailers - for which they can be harshly punished if they don't. Just think: YOU could be her, if that kind of treatment floats your boat. Personally, if I forget to bring my bags or buy more than I planned, I prefer to just pay the 20p or 40p price and leave the store legally, quietly and unchallenged.

DrSbaitso · 14/02/2022 11:01

Still no explanation as to why people seem to hate ‘lol’ on here

It's because to us Aged Irrelevant Folks (why are you here?), it belongs to 2008 when cat memes and Second Life were cutting edge. Back then it still wasn't funny, but at least it wasn't also very dated.

DropYourSword · 14/02/2022 11:01

[quote flowervest75]@DropYourSword no one is being deliberately goady or arguing with people. People have CONSTANTLY @‘d me so I’ll obviously get a notification and then I respond. If that’s what you consider to be an argument then fair enough. Still no explanation as to why people seem to hate ‘lol’ on here but I guess me looking for an answer is looking for an argument ey[/quote]
I've given you the explanation. It's goady. You may not like the explanation, but there it is.

BordelDeMerde · 14/02/2022 11:06

I stole a branded ashtray from a Travelodge once when I was a stroppy teenager. I still feel bad about it thirty years later. Especially since it was a family room and the hotel probably thought my very upright, anti-smoking parents took it. Blush

Otherwise, nothing except the disposable slippers and pens. I love a good hotel pen.