not wanted on his facebook.......

[aquamarine2]

I was with my partner the other evening and as usual he was on facebook. I made the comment that he seemed to have many women 'friends' on this site but wondered why I wasnt one of them. He turned to me and said " I dont want you on my facebook". I am really upset by this, not because I want to be on there, but rather his response. I dont know why this has got me so much but it really has.

@DryOldCaper

Jesus H…. 😑

Do people not understand how relationships work anymore?

You’re supposed to actually like each other.

I think you have hit the nail on the head. People set the bar way too fucking low.

I wasn't suggesting OP catfish their partner, they just asked what it meant.

This relationship is dead in the water, he sounds like a twat.

I'm not a fan of social media, it's so toxic but not to be allowed on my partners pages would be a deal breaker.There is no reason why any social media content would ever need to be separate from partners unless that content is being used in a dodgy way. He has absolutely no respect for your relationship. The very fact he showed no remorse , no explanation, blamed you just shows how he feels. If your relationship has no trust, he isn't prepared to share his life online with you, he is absolutely no good for you. Get out x

You are not at fault in any way.

After 15 years?

Shady as hell...

He is probably pretending to be single while on Facebook and using it to chat up other women.

There is simply no good/logical reason why your long-term partner would freeze you out of their social media. Sorry.

Presenting himself as single.

But he'll deign to live under your roof. Good of him.