No biggie just curious if I’m in the complete minority! DH & I were watching a programme last night in which the central character looks up an ex on Facebook and makes contact with them. Which started a conversation about looking up previous partners etc up on social media.
DH knows I’ve done that (I don’t think it’s a big deal and what many of us do.. I think, maybe this post will prove otherwise!) and his opinion was that it was ‘pretty weird and stalkery’ and he wouldn’t think to even look. He wouldn’t have it that this might just be normal curiousity and what many others might actually have done too!
(For the record, at one point or the other I’ve checked out ex boyfriends on Facebook & LinkedIn just to see how their lives & careers turned out, whether they seem to have got married etc. But just to be clear, I’ve only done this as a one off snoop which I think is a million miles away from regularly checking their social media which I do think falls into the stalkery bracket! The only ex I’ve ever sent a friends request too is my ex university boyfriend who is a good friend!)