Just wondering about wedding invite etiquette …my brother is getting married in June, he has invited me and my family (hubby and two kids) we live abroad (Europe) so not far. Yesterday was discussing with hubby the logistics and he basically threw a major tantrum and said if my brother didn’t invite him directly as in call him personally about the wedding, then he isn’t going and neither are the kids. That basically it’s rude that my brother hasn’t spoken to him directly and expects him to buy tickets and fly over. Am I missing something ? Because I think it’s pretty ridiculous, since he is invited by both my sis in law and brother, they have made plans for four of us, does he actually need to be told personally? For a little back story, my brother and husband don’t talk much, just polite, there’s literally a 20 year age gap so they don’t have much in common, and my brother is pretty anti-social. We live abroad the interaction is limited to when he or we visit, which we haven’t in the last two years. Tell me because I’m seething and ready to curse my husband all the way out.