'Some do. Others, particularly those who are bereaved, are deeply traumatised and are unable to move on however much they might want to. '
Yes and it's of course understandable, many people project when they are bereaved. Anger is a perfectly normal part of the process.
What the Government or impartial medical experts should perhaps be doing is reiterating that whatever lines may have been crossed the need for strict restrictions to prevent different households mixing at social events was of paramount importance. I absolutely understand why I couldn't attend relatives funerals, I'm not of the mindset well if they refreshments in the office we should have been allowed to go because I can see the rationale behind the rules.