[quote Cantleave]**@SilverDoe “He is dead btw. I spoke to DP about it again as he was leaving for the school run. The lady also spoke to a female staff member and what he heard was basically the lady saying "how could you kill an innocent creature" and the lady staff member saying "it wasn't us it was the manager".”
Why on earth did you not find out all this information from your dh, before you contacted the co op and posted on here? You would have avoided a lot of the horrible comments you have had. I can’t understand why your dh was going to speak to the manager, to find out what had happened, when he actually already knew!![/quote]
I don't think that's fair, they are 2 different things. First of all, I am not responsible for ay "horrible comments" directed at me. If it is in someone's nature to be horrible, they would have been horrible regardess.
Furthermore, while I can't repeat the entire conversation, it was very clear right from the up front to me that the bird was dead and had been killed by the manager, which is exactly what I said the conversation confirmed all along.
The only difference is because I was speaking to DP about it again (I've been in my office and pet room the whole day) I asked him (because of the doubt cast by this thread) exactly what he heard and he reiterated. In my mind it was clear and I had this information from the beginning. Hence why I said multiple times that what I was saying was true.
I can’t understand why your dh was going to speak to the manager, to find out what had happened, when he actually already knew!!
Because as posters here have suggested very assertively and vocally, maybe he arranged for the bird to be killed humanely or something, which would technically mean I have nothing to complain about, though I would still be upset. Therefore we wanted to clarify the facts. My dp bless him was also actually really shaken up by the whole event and he actually also wanted to support the lady/magpie and tell the manager directly (though not aggressively/shoutily) that he thought it was unacceptable.