Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

These are my symptoms. What is wrong?

289 replies

MirabelM · 25/01/2022 17:39

For as long as I can remember, I have very little energy beyond going to work as a teacher, sorting out my two kids, house and husband and general day to day stuff. I'm sick of feeling soooo tired. My exhaustion is now affecting my kids and husband.

Symptoms include: fatigue, exhaustion, never waking up refreshed, irritable, very low mood, tearfulness, slow weight gain, brain feels heavy sometimes and cannot juggle thoughts or tasks.

I've had blood taken recently and awaiting results but I'm worried. I'm worried there'll be something majorly wrong but at the same time worried there'll be absolutely nothing physically wrong so I cannot fix it.

Please help. I just feel like crying.

OP posts:
galacticpixels · 25/01/2022 17:51

I had many of these symptoms when I had a B12 deficiency. And then again when I had a vitamin D deficiency.

SomeOwlsCoo · 25/01/2022 17:51

Sounds like me a few months ago. I was diagnosed as low in Vit D and folic acid.

Mayhemmumma · 25/01/2022 17:51

Iron tablets

Berocca was a bit of a life changer for energy for me.

Also sleeping separately to my husband, I snore and annoy him but also am a really light sleeper so he woke me every time he moved. After 20 years I actually sleep deeply! (Love him dearly)

UserThenLotsOfNumbers · 25/01/2022 17:52

You sound exhausted. It might be a health issue and it's good you're getting it checked out, but I wonder if you simply have too much on your plate.

EmergencyPoncho · 25/01/2022 17:52

@SomeOwlsCoo

Sounds like me a few months ago. I was diagnosed as low in Vit D and folic acid.
I was as well and I think it did help. I haven't taken for ages though, which is stupid.
ScribblingPixie · 25/01/2022 17:53

If they checked your iron levels make sure they also check ferritin, OP. That's what caused most of these symptoms for me.

NellyDElephant · 25/01/2022 17:53

My vote is under active thyroid, particularly with the hair thinning and feeling low. How is your immune system? Do you catch lots of bugs or are you generally healthy and well otherwise?

MirabelM · 25/01/2022 17:54

I genuinely can't live feeling like this. I'm not living. I don't think it's depression as such but I'm down about how I feel physically.

Bloods were only taken on Saturday.

OP posts:
MirabelM · 25/01/2022 17:55

Immune system seems fab. Omicron is currently ripping through my house and school and I'm negative!

OP posts:
Indecisivelurcher · 25/01/2022 17:57

Sounds very much like low iron, just going off my own experience. My ferrous iron was 5 and I was told by one doctor it should be over 50 to feel well.

Bywayofanupdate · 25/01/2022 17:57

I had these symptoms and it was b12 deficiency. Could also be long covid?

MirabelM · 25/01/2022 17:58

If the GP says my results are normal, I will cry.

OP posts:
MirabelM · 25/01/2022 17:58

As far as I know bytheway, I've never had Covid.

OP posts:
endofthelinefinally · 25/01/2022 17:58

Hypothyroidism
Vitamin D deficiency
Iron deficiency
B12 deficiency
Perimenopause

You need to be screened for all of these.

Moonflower12 · 25/01/2022 17:59

@MirabelM
I have felt like this for a few months. I'm not sure if it's teaching or Long Covid? I also felt so beyond knackered with omicron. And tested positive on PCR but negative on LFTs.

HeyBlaby · 25/01/2022 17:59

Sounds like me before diagnosed with underactive thyroid, very unlikely to be anything sinister.

MirabelM · 25/01/2022 18:01

Another possible symptom is tinnitus and hearing issues since Dec 2019.

OP posts:
MirabelM · 25/01/2022 18:02

What is the blood test called for looking at menopause etc? Just want to see if itys on the list

OP posts:
ScribblingPixie · 25/01/2022 18:02

You could take Vit D anyway - official advice is we all should through winter. Without supplements I can barely wake up in the morning.

MirabelM · 25/01/2022 18:03

HeyBlaby, did medication help? I feel like I'm losing the plot!

OP posts:
ScribblingPixie · 25/01/2022 18:03

There's a link between tinnitus and B12.

MirabelM · 25/01/2022 18:04

Is there scribbling? Interesting. Thanks. @ScribblingPixie

OP posts:
MirabelM · 25/01/2022 18:05

Thanks for all the replies. So appreciated. I've thought aboutlong Covid but despite 3/4 of the family having Covid and being in school, I've never tested positive.

OP posts:
saltandpepper234 · 25/01/2022 18:09

Do you feel the same in the school holidays as during term time OP?

I only ask because when I was teaching I too struggled with feeling exhausted all the time. The only times I felt “normal” were in the school holidays.

I no longer teach and am able to get to work at a reasonable time and my working day is generally much less full on. Weight gain could be explained by eating snacks to keep going if you are feeling tired?

Notlostjustexploring · 25/01/2022 18:12

I'm another voting for low iron/ferritin!

Can cause exhaustion, hair loss, tinnitus, depression.

I like you got private tests done and I was so relieved that there actually was something wrong with me!!

When you do get your results, even if a result is "normal" it may not be optimal.

Let us know how you get on?

Swipe left for the next trending thread