Long distance relationship so I do get that you have to work at keeping the momentum going. But my bf is constantly messaging all day. If I haven't replied he will ask if I'm OK. Or ask what I'm up to. He works from home for himself and even when he has his son he is still texting me about what they are doing, sending pictures.
I have a job. I have kids. I have friends and its starting to feel like a chore.
On the other hand, I guess if its LD and you don't meet up much,how else do you connect?
Aibu? Yes...he's trying to keep it alive.
No...it's too much of a full time job.