Just wondering if this is normal in relationships- my partner constantly makes me feel on edge, however in no way is he abusive towards me. Examples are - something breaks in the house I.e. microwave - he shouts, swears throws things (not specifically at me but more in general shouting f&%# sake etc) and it makes me so uncomfortable. He then demands that I help him with whatever task he is doing whilst basically telling me the whole time I'm doing it wrong. He then takes this opportunity to complain about other things like the cupboards needing cleaned. It doesn't happen a lot, only when something unexpectedly goes wrong or if I take a wrong turn in the car etc but I hate it. I feel like the rest of the time I walk on eggshells trying not to upset him or I'm dreading the next 'event'. For reference I grew up in a home with domestic violence so I'm unsure if I'm more sensitive to these things. Once the thing is resolved he is usually fine but I hold a grudge and then wait for the next one. Is this normal? And if so how do I work around this with my own feelings? During these events I constantly think to myself how I would be happier without him & if x broke in my home and I was there alone it would be such a minor issue. Thank you.