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AIBU to think this over sexualised photo is just weird!

190 replies

mumof2exhausted · 17/12/2021 20:41

Christmas elves are magical, cheeky and apparently now “sexy” with Amanda Holden. I just find it so weird for grown women to dress up like this and kiss in this way.

OP posts:
inappropriateraspberry · 17/12/2021 22:58

@housemaus

I don't love the photo, but Christ....

clinging onto youth for dear life

her by the pool in outfits most of us would have been embarrassed to be seen in at 17 due to the amount they show

That's you told Amanda, now you're 50 you need to go and pick up your regulation cardigan and flattering one-piece with stomach ruching, there's a nice old dear.

How about we let women wear what they want and stop dictating that women over a certain age must not try and be/feel/appear sexually appealing (regardless of whether you personally think it's attractive, tasteful etc)? That's how you end up with 25 year old women cast as the lead against a 45 year old man in every bloody film made.

There's wearing what you want, then there's trying to pretend you're something you're not. No one is saying she shouldn't dress to show off her amazing body, but it's how you do it. This is degrading to all women, and is just 'for the boys.' Naff and sad.
Creamcrackersandricecakes · 17/12/2021 23:03

The comments on the Heart radio Twitter feed under this photo are absolutely revolting. Sad little men getting their jollies - lots of 'one for the bank!' type comments. Completely vomit inducing. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Shallwegoforawalk · 17/12/2021 23:03

@QueenJeanie

She's had Les Dennis's balls on her chin
Snort Grin
donquixotedelamancha · 17/12/2021 23:04

YABU, OP.

Amanda Holden (like many other people) has made her money by making herself into an object for men to leer at and women to talk about. She works hard (surgery, diet, exercise, clothes, make up, etc) to ensure she is a valuable commodity.

There are lots of other pretty pieces of meat out there so she needs to keep getting attention. She doesn't have any talent or think any deep thoughts (or has chosen not to) so this is the only way- if she doesn't do it, she will soon stop getting paid. This thread is exactly what she wants.

People will claim I'm being harsh but I'm making no judgement. She might be lovely; certainly people do much worse things for worse reasons.

Really it's the fault of the people pathetic enough to pay attention, including me for talking about it. I think it's a symptom of a deep problem with what we value about other humans, especially women.

Shallwegoforawalk · 17/12/2021 23:05

@maryzx they were married so it's a pretty good guess 🌰🌰

JellyfishandShells · 17/12/2021 23:06

@kwiksavenofrillsusername

Looks like the cover of FHM from December 1998. Tacky and dated.
Accurate
KingDangerMouse · 17/12/2021 23:12

Narcissism in Action.

Itsnotover · 17/12/2021 23:16

Ugh

Stuckhere2021 · 17/12/2021 23:20

@Creamcrackersandricecakes

The comments on the Heart radio Twitter feed under this photo are absolutely revolting. Sad little men getting their jollies - lots of 'one for the bank!' type comments. Completely vomit inducing. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Indeed @Creamcrackersandricecakes - I was a bit Shock at the amount of men posting this type of comment using what looked like their real account/id. How totally cringeworthy. Don’t they care if people who know them see it? They’re like something out of The Inbetweeners!
minipie · 17/12/2021 23:22

@Starcaller

I thought that was her kissing herself for a moment and wasn't remotely surprised
😂
Theimpossiblegirl · 17/12/2021 23:22

I've been boycotting Heart Radio since they go rid of all of the local presenters and gave AH the job. I can't stand her wittering on.
Bring back Ed, Troy and the lovely Paulina I say! (South West)

Thebestusername1 · 17/12/2021 23:23

Attention seeking boke

KerryWeaver · 17/12/2021 23:24

Thread complaining about Amanda Holden's 'attention-seeking' draws attention to Amanda.

Hardly anyone would have been aware of this photo if it wasn't for this thread.

Waves at Amanda. Smile

CoffeeMuggins · 17/12/2021 23:26

@housemaus

I don't love the photo, but Christ....

clinging onto youth for dear life

her by the pool in outfits most of us would have been embarrassed to be seen in at 17 due to the amount they show

That's you told Amanda, now you're 50 you need to go and pick up your regulation cardigan and flattering one-piece with stomach ruching, there's a nice old dear.

How about we let women wear what they want and stop dictating that women over a certain age must not try and be/feel/appear sexually appealing (regardless of whether you personally think it's attractive, tasteful etc)? That's how you end up with 25 year old women cast as the lead against a 45 year old man in every bloody film made.

Nah, she could just dress and behave, you know, like a woman rather than a needy teenager.
ginnig · 17/12/2021 23:31

It’s VERY 90s isn’t it

So dated

ginnig · 17/12/2021 23:33

So thirsty!

ginnig · 17/12/2021 23:39

how can her breakfast show be the biggest in Europe?! who listens to it?!

RantyAunty · 17/12/2021 23:40

Not weird.
On point marketing for her target audience is all.

TrashyPanda · 17/12/2021 23:40

How sad she feels she has to do this in the first place.

And even sadder the amount of airbrushing.

It might be titillating to some, but to me it looks totally perfunctory and artificial.

PestoSugarPlumFairy · 17/12/2021 23:50

Poor Les. I hope he washed them after

😂 love this.

I cant work out which one is AH, they look identical.

NigellaAwesome · 17/12/2021 23:52

@me4real

Like PP's said, desperate. There are quite a few of them like Ulrika, Carol Vorderman, Madonna for that matter.
I'll have nothing said against Carol Vorderman. She is fantastic at maths.
eminem120176 · 18/12/2021 00:02

Nothing wrong with that

OhWhyNot · 18/12/2021 00:52

It’s so Nuts naughty pictures of celebs Hmm

She married Les Dennis as a career move that tells you everything

Tomthumbsbigbum · 18/12/2021 06:50

She's put it on her Instagram page. The comments are 🤢. A lot of pervy men talking about santa emptying his sack and one for the wank bank etc etc.

penniesdimesapplespears · 18/12/2021 07:26

@KerryWeaver

Thread complaining about Amanda Holden's 'attention-seeking' draws attention to Amanda.

Hardly anyone would have been aware of this photo if it wasn't for this thread.

Waves at Amanda. Smile

This thread was probably started by Amanda Xmas GrinXmas GrinXmas GrinXmas Grin I'm only half joking.
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