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Adding “No?” to the end of a statement makes you sound a bit twatty

82 replies

hazelnutpraline · 30/11/2021 14:54

No?

OP posts:
dropitlikeitsloth · 30/11/2021 16:12

Was hoping you put ‘no?’ in your post OP and was not disappointed 😁👍🏻

dropitlikeitsloth · 30/11/2021 16:13

Also I think ‘non’ is worse. Extra pretentious point there, non? 😆

TwoMuchTwoYoung · 30/11/2021 16:18

HATE IT
HATE IT
HATE IT
and anyone who uses it is an absolute wanker - fact.

GetTheFlockOutOfHere · 30/11/2021 16:30

Another thing that pisses me off is when people put - for example - 'we went out sans the children...'. WTF? 'SANS' the children. Sans is French for 'without...' Why the fuck do people do this? Put a random French word in the middle of a totally English sentence? Confused It's not big and it's not clever, it just makes you look like a twat.

runningpram · 30/11/2021 21:11

Hell yes!! YANBU!

RobertaFirmino · 30/11/2021 21:59

I hate it too. It's as pretentious as fuck and used by people who also say 'kwasson', 'keenowah' and give orzo to the foodbank, thinking this makes them 'woke'.

Youngatheart00 · 30/11/2021 22:04

‘No?’ At end of a sentence I associate with Spanish

ineedsun · 30/11/2021 22:04

Absolutely awful, used a lot on here by passive aggressive nobheads

Anonymous48 · 30/11/2021 22:04

I don't think I've ever heard a native English speaker do this, so YABU.

BrassCandlestick · 30/11/2021 22:05

My XP did this all the time because he'd spent time living in Spain, where it is a part of the speech there, and he thought that to say it in English made him sound all exotic.

He sounded like A TWAT.

Thwackit · 30/11/2021 22:07

Imagine if they ended a sentence containing ‘ergo’ with a ‘no?’ at the end.

Violetparis · 30/11/2021 22:13

Totally agree, also hate it when people put a full stop after each word for empahsis. Mostly. Done. By. Smug. Arseholes. On. Twitter.

MerryMarigold · 30/11/2021 22:16

I have never heard this said in RL, only seen it on MN. Makes me ragey enough just to read it. I would not be responsible for my scrubs if someone said it to my face!

MerryMarigold · 30/11/2021 22:16

Actually my actions not my scrubs

IveNameChangedAgain2020 · 30/11/2021 22:17

Same as someone answering "correct" when you ask a question. Fuck off to the fuckity side of fucks 😬

TheShriekingShack · 30/11/2021 22:20

@RobertaFirmino I thought that was the right pronunciation of croissant, no? Grin Wink

Unreasonabubble · 30/11/2021 22:30

Where did "my bad" come from? I see it everywhere.

RosieLemonadeAndSugar · 30/11/2021 22:33

I hate the 'go' similar to discuss...

eg: can anyone recommend any presents for a 200 year old? Go'

Just seems rude

mocktail · 30/11/2021 22:37

What's wrong with 'kwasson'? BlushConfused

malteser1212 · 30/11/2021 22:40

Oh no! I am bilingual (Eng/Fre) and I do do this sometimes - but only when I am speaking, not writing. I genuinely don't mean it in a pretentious way! It just happens naturallyBlush Will try and be more conscious as to when it is about to happen and bite my tongue!

AllesAusLiebe · 30/11/2021 22:43

Also people who start sentences with "So"

God, you'd hate me! Blush

Is this one really so bad?? I use it when I want to corral DH/DS into some activity.

I can change. 😂

RightOnTheEdge · 30/11/2021 22:44

As I'm reading this thread I can feel the stress rising inside me! 😆
"no?" "much" and "discuss" are so twatty and pretentious!
I have never heard anyone talk like that in real life, only on MN.

AlphabetStew · 30/11/2021 22:49

Very, very common in Spanish. Probably because, for example, 'You have a dog' and 'Do you have a dog?' have the same wording so often adding 'no?' at the end can help the person you're speaking with to realise that you've asked a question.

You have a dog?

I'm sorry?
You have a dog, right?

MarisPiper92 · 30/11/2021 22:51

I feel like this is the correct place for me to vent about my friend, who is fantastic in every way apart from his habit of ending sentences with "or?". As in: "pub tonight, or?"

OR WHAT?!!

WarmthAndDepth · 30/11/2021 23:01

"So" as a sentence opener is a annoying AF; usually followed by an elaborate scene-setting. It puts me off reading past the "So,...".