be upset my husband is onlyfans?

[LauraJaneJones]

Just clicked on his email since I was at his desk and I just thought hm, let's click this tab..... only fans password change.

We do not have an open relationship. AIBU to be upset about this? I feel it's like cheating as he's getting private stuff off these women? I am unsure how it works, any insight helpful.

@WonderfulYou

Even if most men do watch porn, so what? Isn’t it time that we raise the bar then. The indrusti is horrible and anti-women. Are women so scared to be alone that being with a porn watcher is better?

Most men do watch porn but so do most women.
We all have different bars.
If you don’t want a partner watching porn then obviously it’s a deal breaker for you but I’ve been on OF a few times and never watched porn on it.
Yes he probably is - but is OP really going to throw an entire relationship away just because he might be watching porn.

It’s just damn sad.

I don’t think we’ll ever end misogyny.

If every woman left her other half if he watched porn then we would end up with a very high number of break ups.

So? Maybe that would actually be a GOOD thing.
Too many women put up with all kinds of crap from men. Porn is just the tip of the iceberg.

Viewing people as things is where all evil starts. I'd dump any man who watched porn - no question - as I'd assume he had no respect for me or any other women.

Is being a cleaner exploitative too then? Or a bin collector? Or any other type of menial labour? Because you won't find anyone with more than 'few options' taking on that type of work either.

A woman's body is not a workplace.

@MistyGreenAndBlue

Is being a cleaner exploitative too then? Or a bin collector? Or any other type of menial labour? Because you won't find anyone with more than 'few options' taking on that type of work either.

A woman's body is not a workplace.

I agree, but OnlyFans is not prostitution. No one on there is actually selling their body.

@MistyGreenAndBlue

Is being a cleaner exploitative too then? Or a bin collector? Or any other type of menial labour? Because you won't find anyone with more than 'few options' taking on that type of work either.

A woman's body is not a workplace.

This statement makes no sense. You could apply the 'woman's body' to any job. One woman uses her body to perform physical labour to clean your house, the other uses her body to varying degrees depending on what she's comfortable with in front of a camera from her own home.

But I know you mean her body specifically as the commodity. By your definition, is a model exploited too? As it's purely her body that is earning her (and massive companies) an income?