My boyfriend is in his late 40s and had a complex marriage in his early 20s that resulted in 2 children. He ended up missing out on 11 years of them growing up due to the problems between him his ex wife.
In 2016 the the kids were late teens and came over to knock on his door. They had a relationship type thing with him from then although the 6 hours distance they didn't see much of eachother.
One of his children is still on his Facebook and calls him. The other has cut him and her mum of 2 years ago. I think she has struggled alot with her upbringing.
About 3 weeks ago I noticed a woman from the town his kids grew up in was added to his Facebook. She's been very much allover his wall and he's not mentioned her to me at all. She had his daughter on her Facebook but nobody else like his ex wife. So I'm not sure of the connection. She appears to be married and stuff but she seems very invested in my boyfriend lately. Loads of kisses and hearts.
I am just thinking he's not mentioned this woman at all to me. It's all very odd. My fears are he's messaging this woman behind my back and I'm worried there's some flirting going on. It doesn't stack up at all. She's even putting likes on his work photos now and it seems bizarre as they are just photos of holes he's dug out etc.
What do you think? Am I paranoid?