How much effort / communication would you expect before meeting someone for the first time?
Have a date planned for Thursday but starting to feel a bit underwhelmed by lack of effort although potentially this is the norm!
He asked me out last week and we settled for Thursday. There has been a bit of contact since then but over the weekend we were messaging Saturday morning and then he just stopped responding (He ignored me asking how his day was going). Still no reply by the evening the following day, so I popped him another message asking if he was ok? That also went unanswered for another day. After having 2 messages ignored over 2 days I just assumed I was being ghosted so said to him, are we still on for Thursday, no worries if not- just need to know. He responded straight away saying Yes Thursday is still good but no apology or explanation of lack of response. I said ok great, a couple of messages back and forward again, I asked him how his work day was going yesterday at 12pm and nothing back since. Would this put you off or am I really expecting to much here?