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No contact when out . AIBU?

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thesebootsweremade · 25/10/2021 10:37

Boyfriend and I together over a year. We don't live together. We speak every evening on the phone and text first thing and last thing at night. When we socialise separately, we ring if not too late or text to say we are home.
Yesterday he went out to watch the footie. Dropped a few early texts and then nothing from after the game.
I text to say goodnight, he was online at that time (WhatsApp) it wasn't read . He didn't bother to contact me at all.
It's a first.
AIBU to be pissed off?

OP posts:
Marvellousmadness · 25/10/2021 21:26

Take a few steps back op. And look at your behaviour. You'll see that it was ott.
He texted you a bit later than normal yes. But he was out and about having drinks with friends. That doesn't mean he feels trapped or boxes in. It just means that he is living life. And the fact that you then went to say you were passed off with him?! Of course he didn't text in the morning straight away . I wouldn't have either. Come on. Live and let live op.

Its nice that you always text in the morning and evening but see it as something that usually happens. Not something that MUST happen.

And you said that he used to be very clingy with contact and all, looks like the shoe is on the other foot now . Just slow down and breathe.

thesebootsweremade · 25/10/2021 21:37

Thanks @Marvellousmadness I appreciate that

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Incognito4 · 25/10/2021 21:41

Massively unreasonable.

DivorceAdvicePlease123 · 25/10/2021 21:48

Very clingy. I'd be off in the other direction instantly

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