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closing toilet lid before flushing

139 replies

garlicandsapphires · 22/10/2021 12:15

Big signs up in work loos to close the lid before flushing.
Does everybody do this?
Surely you need to see inside to make sure everything is gone, in which case you'd open, close to flush, open again to check, close again for the next person.
Do people really do this? on public loos? AIBU to not do it?

OP posts:
grey12 · 22/10/2021 12:17

You should because it sprays...... Confused but to be VERY honest with you, in public toilets I avoid touching the lid......

Gemzee · 22/10/2021 12:17

Always close the lid when flushing, ever since I realised the germs fly up when flushing & my toothbrush/the sink is next to the loo!
I have bern known to open & check everything has flushed after though.

FreeChuro · 22/10/2021 12:18

Yes definitely close the lid before flushing!

Gemzee · 22/10/2021 12:18

I would do it in public loos as well, unless really really grotty (you would obviously wash your hands directly after).

AutumnLeafy · 22/10/2021 12:18

It's disgusting not to. You're basically spraying wee and shit in the air.

nurserypolitics · 22/10/2021 12:19

Yes, I think its become much more of a norm. I get annoyed if visitors to our house don't do it. As a family, we were advised to do it by doctors about 15 years ago: someone was immune-compromised due to chemo and they said a lot of germs circulate through droplets so everyone should get into the habit of closing the lid. In public toilets, I find most people don't stay long enough to check everything has gone: they flush and walk out the door.

Since we all started doing it, I've noticed its much more common. In a private home I always would, in a workplace, I think I would, in a toilet in a shopping centre I might prefer people didn't because so often your'e confronted with horrific things in the toilet, I'd rather have a clear visual as I approach!

AutumnLeafy · 22/10/2021 12:20

I put lid down then flush then check then put the lid back up.

CoffeeTopUp · 22/10/2021 12:20

If you don’t you get spread of germs from tiny water particles mixed with bacteria from your shit/ wee.

garlicandsapphires · 22/10/2021 12:23

ARE you basically spraying wee and shit in the air though?

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Megan2018 · 22/10/2021 12:25

I don’t do it, urine is sterile so I can’t get excited about my own particles to be honest with you.
I also spend a lot of time cleaning out hen houses and stables and am covered in animal shit particles no doubt. I think it boosts immunity!

grey12 · 22/10/2021 12:26

@garlicandsapphires

ARE you basically spraying wee and shit in the air though?
Yes!! Make sure your toothbrush is not out in the open Wink
IsDaveThere · 22/10/2021 12:26

I don't Blush. I've got a soft close toilet lid and it takes a while to close, I'd be in there all day.

FourteenthDoctor · 22/10/2021 12:28

I've never done this! I'm suspicious when I see a closed lid in case I end up staring at a big jobbie someone couldn't flush

Regularsizedrudy · 22/10/2021 12:28

@garlicandsapphires

ARE you basically spraying wee and shit in the air though?
Yes
Nanny0gg · 22/10/2021 12:28

@garlicandsapphires

Big signs up in work loos to close the lid before flushing. Does everybody do this? Surely you need to see inside to make sure everything is gone, in which case you'd open, close to flush, open again to check, close again for the next person. Do people really do this? on public loos? AIBU to not do it?
Envy Not envy

You do know your spraying droplets containing urine and faeces everywhere? (where's your toothbrush at home?)

Just check and flush again afterwards if necessary. What's watching it going to achieve?

DillonPanthersTexas · 22/10/2021 12:28

It's disgusting not to. You're basically spraying wee and shit in the air.

Yes, you are basically staging a Bobby Sands protest by not closing the lid.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 22/10/2021 12:29

I'm thinking of fitting one of those door spy-holes in the toilet seat lid so I can check that 'everything's gone' without having to lift the lid again.
Hmm, may need some lighting in there too... Or perhaps fit a RING doorbell. That would work.

ShirleyPhallus · 22/10/2021 12:30

The new toilets which you have to close the lid to be able to flush, and then reach under the rim to open them when you go in - they really give me the heebie jeebies

megletthesecond · 22/10/2021 12:31

I do it at work, with my foot. And re-open it to check it's gone.

ofwarren · 22/10/2021 12:31

Yes, I always close the lid. You are spraying wee and poo particles up to 15 feet away otherwise.
www.goodhousekeeping.com/health/a22777060/close-the-toilet-seat/

Megan2018 · 22/10/2021 12:32

You can drink urine, if you shove your toothbrush in a cup of it you’ll come to no harm. Such hysteria over nothing!

ofwarren · 22/10/2021 12:35

@Megan2018

You can drink urine, if you shove your toothbrush in a cup of it you’ll come to no harm. Such hysteria over nothing!
No urine is not sterile, it's a myth www.sciencenews.org/blog/gory-details/urine-not-sterile-and-neither-rest-you Plus, what about the poo?
FourteenthDoctor · 22/10/2021 12:36

Oh no so I've been cleaning my teeth with shit and wiping my arse with toilet paper already covered in shit and my drying my hands on the towel that's already covered in shit. I'm doomed.

Nanny0gg · 22/10/2021 12:40

@Megan2018

You can drink urine, if you shove your toothbrush in a cup of it you’ll come to no harm. Such hysteria over nothing!
And faeces?

And there's a difference between drinking fresh urine with urine that's been in a not necessarily recently cleaned toilet bowl.

Envy
Mjjbgfessrgb · 22/10/2021 12:41

Definitely. I also insist that everyone else at home does, which means the seat is down my default.