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Should we keep the money we found?

293 replies

Exboltqueen · 18/10/2021 19:11

This morning at soft play Ds found four £1 at the bottom of a slide. He was really excited but I explained how it wasn't ours and it had fallen out of someone's pocket and we handed it in to the reception. Unaware of the £4, on the way home DH found £100 in rolled up notes. He stood there for a while and didn't see anyone looking for it. I feel like it's good karma and we should keep it. My husband thinks we should give it to the police. (We are low income so feels like a lot of money)
So
YABU - you should practice what you preach to your son, hand it in.
YANBU - enjoy the good karma and keep it

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HailAdrian · 19/10/2021 10:15

I once found £20 on the street after the races had been on and all the drunks racegoers were walking back into the city centre. I asked the guys in front of me if they'd dropped it and they said no. I had no qualms whatsoever about pocketing that.

HouseOfFire · 19/10/2021 10:24

@NativityDreaming

It is theft to keep the money. There was a woman charged for keeping £20 she found in a store. She ended up pleading guilty and having to pay the money back, a surcharge, and court costs!
@HailAdrian

www.independent.co.uk/news/business/news/woman-nicole-bailey-kept-ps20-note-one-stop-burton-stoke-trent-criminal-record-staff-poketed-a7603576.html

A woman landed herself with a criminal record after she kept a £20 banknote she found on the floor.

Nicole Bailey, 23, found the money in the One Stop store in Blurton, Stoke-on-Trent, and pocketed it for herself rather than handing it in, local paper Stoke Sentinel reports.

The cash had been withdrawn beforehand by a fellow customer, who informed staff when he realised he had lost it.
Prosecutor Ruth Bentley said: "Staff checked the CCTV which showed a female pick up the £20 note from a display in the store."

“The manager recognised the woman, who was a regular customer.”

The court heard police were called in and Ms Bailey, a local resident, attended a voluntary interview.
Ms Bailey had initially told police that she had not pocketed the money but later admitted it when shown the footage and pleaded guilty to theft.

Simon Dykes, mitigating, said the matter should have been dealt with by a police caution.

“She didn’t know who the money belonged to. People don’t realise picking up something you have found amounts to a theft. She has been quite naive in doing so,” Mr Dykes said.

Ms Bailey has been given a conditional discharge and was ordered to pay £175 in costs and charges.

“We would actively encourage any member of the public who picks up money that has been dropped to be honest and do the right thing by taking all reasonable steps to try and find the owner,” Staffordshire Police Chief Inspector Karen Stevenson, said.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 19/10/2021 10:54

@mountbattenbergcake

Another one doubting that people actually go to the police for lost money,
If it was a tenner, no. But a roll of £100, yes. I would know it would be a long shot - especially judging by some of the fucked up replies on here - but I would still ask, as you never know.
Exboltqueen · 19/10/2021 11:11

The money is handed in. Me and ds are at the police station now waiting for a reference number.

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NativityDreaming · 19/10/2021 11:30

HailAdrian you’re not very smart are you? Too easy to verify: www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-39119990

Flowersintheattic2021 · 19/10/2021 11:31

Finding money in a shop is different to finding it on the street ....

ilovesooty · 19/10/2021 11:44

@Exboltqueen

The money is handed in. Me and ds are at the police station now waiting for a reference number.
At least you're honest, unlike some of the people on this thread.
SleepingStandingUp · 19/10/2021 12:24

If karma exists, that's how I think it works too @Bopahula

phishy · 19/10/2021 12:27

@SleepingStandingUp

If karma exists, that's how I think it works too *@Bopahula*
But that's not what karma means.

What is the definition of karma?

The truth is, most of us have it wrong. And this misunderstanding doesn’t help any of us.

Karma is a Sanskrit word meaning “action.” It refers to a cycle of cause-and-effect that is an important concept in many Eastern Religions, particularly Hinduism and Buddhism.

In its essence, karma refers to both the actions and the consequences of the actions.

Importantly, karma is not set in stone, is not out of our control, and is not indirect. By this, I mean you don’t do good things with hopes of getting a randomly good outcome (karma is not doing your chores this week in hopes of winning the lottery).

Instead, it means that the steps of your life, your spiritual development, and your personality are directly molded by your thoughts and actions. Present you affects future you.

HailAdrian · 19/10/2021 12:35

@NativityDreaming when will you people learn that making silly assumptions about strangers on mumsnet does nothing but make you like a patronising arse. I mean, I even said 'I stand corrected' before you posted that. 😄

IntermittentParps · 19/10/2021 12:36

I have to be honest, I like to think I'd hand it in but really I think I'd keep it.
In a soft play, or a large shop, or even a safari park or somewhere outdoors but that is likely to be 'patrolled' is one thing. Out on the street is another.
I know that makes me morally dubious.

SpiderinaWingMirror · 19/10/2021 12:44

Don't post about it on fb! We had one on our local group. "Found fifty quid in the park, handed in to police station". Next time the station opened, there was a neat queue of people claiming it was theirs! God know how that was resolved but I don't think the police were happy.

nomoneytreehere · 19/10/2021 12:47

Even if it doesn't belong to someone on a low wage it's not yours. Hand it in. If it's not claimed then you will get it back.

I took £50 out of the cash point in the coop once (to pay my cleaner) and by the time I got to the checkout had lost it. They checked the cctv and it wasn't clear what had happened to it. I must have dropped it and whoever picked it up just pocketed it. It's theft not a lucky karma find.

3scape · 19/10/2021 12:50

Hand it in. No vaguebooking. Hmm that's one way to fish for the dodgiest people nearby.

TheMagiciansNiece · 19/10/2021 12:52

Definitely no such thing as karma.

I found a fiver in the street once, handed it in to our little local shop.

Got home to find my cat had been run over Sad

neededafart · 19/10/2021 13:07

(We are low income so feels like a lot of money)

It is a lot of money regardless of whether you are on a low income. The fact you are on a low income is completely irrelevant

Ingvermama · 19/10/2021 13:19

I gave a homeless person a sandwich and a cuppa one time and the next morning found a £20 note on the pavement, no one nearby, I was walking back from the school run. I didn't know what to do with it so I kept it. That's karma.

shrugshrug · 19/10/2021 13:28

@Exboltqueen
You did the right thing. Flowers

Anonymice1 · 19/10/2021 13:42

Rolled up cash seems like it could be someone elderly. Obviously hand it in, and assume someone saw you find it.

Sloth66 · 19/10/2021 13:58

I found £100 at a cash till once and handed it in to the bank. It was never collected, so I got it back.

RosieLemonade · 19/10/2021 14:44

One time someone returned my purse I had left on the bus but took the cash out. That was all the money I had for Christmas presents. Wonder whether that is good or bad karma?

mountbattenbergcake · 19/10/2021 14:58

@Sloth66

I found £100 at a cash till once and handed it in to the bank. It was never collected, so I got it back.
I left behind cash back at an Asda will, someone had handed it in and Asda had saved it in a massive ring binder ordered by date.
AuroraSophia · 19/10/2021 17:32

Do people really hand in money to the police 😂 keep it and enjoy it!!!!

Yogalola · 19/10/2021 17:33

Hand it in, far better for your conscience plus you may even get a reward from owner of this money. That money could belong to someone who needs that money more than you do, don’t hesitate hand it in

cherish123 · 19/10/2021 17:41

Your logic makes no sense.
I would say it's okay to keep£4 (though I'd probably hand it in, if I was in a building). I would definitely hand in £100 or put a message out on a social media page (not saying amount). Someone might miss £100.