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AIBU to be disappointed in this cake…

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Notwhatiimagined · 15/10/2021 14:54

I picked up dds cake today and it was not what I expected.

Would you be happy with this cake? I’ve attached two pics below, one was the pic I sent to the cake maker of what I wanted (a family dog) and the other picture is of the cake.

Also his head is made of Rice Krispies as apparently heads are hard to do. I wasn’t aware that it wouldn’t be all sponge.

It’s from a proper cake shop, not someone who does it as a hobby.

What do you all think?

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Notwhatiimagined · 15/10/2021 19:16

I don’t think dd will eat the head if it’s like those Rice Krispy square sticky bars as she doesn’t like them.

I shall let you know how it tastes tomorrow if anyone is interested.

I’ve no intention of asking for a partial refund etc I will just learn from this

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skybluee · 15/10/2021 19:17

I really like it and prefer it to the other dog cakes on this thread. The very realistic ones are a bit creepy.

I do like this one though:

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RaisedByPangolins · 15/10/2021 19:19

@BoxOfDreams

I think you were ripped off. Ingredients what - £15 max? Time - 6 hours max? Not a good likeness either.
When’s the last time you made a cake?! £15 ffs.

I made a cake this week - it took me the best part of 3 days to shop for the ingredients, prep the tins, bake the cakes, make the frosting, decorate the cake and clean up afterwards. Not to mention the time liasing with the customer to decide on a design, arrange collection etc - it all takes time.

The sponge itself was prob £5-7 in ingredients. It was a big cake, not fancy looking but tasty! The butter icing used 6 packs of butter @£1.80 each, 3 boxes of icing sugar at @£2 each, vanilla extract - probs another £1 on its own, plus all the chocolates and flavourings. I made homemade fruit curds for the fillings and two different flavours of butter icing, plus chocolate ganache, so cream and Belgian chocolate to account for too.

The whole thing cost me at least £40 just for ingredients, plus the baking paper circles for lining tins, the electricity for baking them, the box, ribbons and labels for packaging etc all £1+ each

Plus as a business you need to pay for insurance, equipment, tins, colours and flavours, cutters, utensils, wear and tear on your kitchen etc, training courses etc and memberships if you are part of any business groups.

You have to cover your hourly rate for when you’re actually baking and decorating, and then washing up and cleaning etc but also cover the unbillable hours when you’re replying to emails or posting on socials etc as your hourly rate isn’t just for the time you spend in the kitchen, if you’re doing it as a job you need to be paid full time, which includes all the other aspects of running a business.

You also need to account for holiday and sick pay as a self employed person, and when setting your prices, you should also factor in profit for your business, so that as you grow, you can outsource work and pay a decent hourly rate to someone else while also making money for the business. What you pay yourself is not profit.

So all those saying £25 need to give their head a wobble!

OP the cake is fine. If you wanted a more realistic one you should have paid the £350 to the baker who would have been able to do that for you. Asking someone who does drip cakes to make a realistic animal is like asking someone who does paint by numbers to do your portrait. You get what you pay for. In this case a perfectly nice looking dog cake. If your kid is unimpressed with it then you’ve inflated their expectations of what a kids birthday cake should look like - any other kid would be delighted with this!

DaphneDeloresMoorhead · 15/10/2021 19:19

I'm a cake decorator.
I would not have agreed to make a realistic dog cake out of buttercream. Clearly the baker wasn't experienced enough in making this sort of cake to know what they should be using.
However I also would have been more in the £250 price bracket

Yuppie20 · 15/10/2021 19:21

Yeah I'm kinda with you tbh, I'd be annoyed if I paid 110 for it. 50 maybe 🤔 it's nice but not like the picture, you could of told them what type of dog and that's it

DaphneDeloresMoorhead · 15/10/2021 19:21

@RaisedByPangolins you said everything I couldn't be arsed to type 😂

NumberTheory · 15/10/2021 19:21

@Notwhatiimagined

Great response! Thanks all.

My dd requested a very realistic cake of the dog so cutting it up if it looked too good wouldn’t of been a problem. I did have a cake done for my sons birthday which was a dinosaur head and that was £150. This was done by a different person though.

The person who did my son wanted £350 for the dog cake.

The person who did the dog cake has a fb page, their work was mainly drip cakes etc but they looked very good.

I did go in and see her to make sure she understood that we were expecting a like for like of the dog as her price was so much cheaper than the dinosaur cake maker.

Anyway dd came home from school and sort of went… oh… err that’s nothing like the dog! However she said she likes it but it wasn’t what she was expecting.

Given she didn't have any examples that showed the sort of skill you wanted and you had a quote for 3 times the price from someone who you knew did have experience producing more realistic looking cakes, I think you were a little naive to expect more than you got. It's always disappointing when you spend a significant chunk of money and it doesn't meet your expectations, though.

I'm glad your DD likes it, even if it's not what she was expecting. Hope she has a great party tomorrow.

Patapouf · 15/10/2021 19:22

Rice Krispies are pretty standard for awkward shapes.
It's an ugly cake but I'm also not the kind of person who would appreciate a dog shaped anything Wink

BurntO · 15/10/2021 19:23

It depends on their portfolio looked like before you ordered. I probably wouldn’t order from someone who had similar work to that

Thingaling · 15/10/2021 19:23

Good grief, they are bakers not Royal Academician portrait artists! What did you expect?

skybluee · 15/10/2021 19:24

At least you didn't get this, lol.

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RaisedByPangolins · 15/10/2021 19:24

And yes the Rice Krispie head is very much the norm with animals and figure cakes. It’s not because “heads are hard to make” it’s because they’re too heavy to support themselves when made of cake so will more likely fall off! Using Rice Krispies is a staple of most professional cake bakers for modelling heads and tricky shapes that need to be kept lighter. They also make dummy cakes from polystyrene and use supports such as plastic straws etc - the underside of cake life isn’t glamorous but needs must!

Wrenna · 15/10/2021 19:25

Honestly, yanbu

RaisedByPangolins · 15/10/2021 19:25

[quote DaphneDeloresMoorhead]@RaisedByPangolins you said everything I couldn't be arsed to type 😂[/quote]
On a rant! Sorry Grin

Haffdonga · 15/10/2021 19:26

If you really want something like the photo you could just eat the dog.

SilverBirchWithout · 15/10/2021 19:26

I thought Devon was a boy’s name.
But it’s a lovely and suitable cake for a 9 year old. But £110 for a cake in the NW, more like London prices!

SudokuWillNotSaveYou · 15/10/2021 19:27

I think if you had mentioned it was £110 in the OP, less people would vote you were being unreasonable. I think YANBU for that price. It’s ridiculous that the head is Rice Krispies; that’s something they do on baking shows when they don’t really intend someone to eat that part and costs pence; it shows it’s not really “part” of the cake. Yes, she would have had to mold the head out of cake, but it can be done. I mean, good grief, there’s a tutorial from BBC Good Food online on how to do a white dog. It looks the way it does because she wasn’t confident enough to do smooth buttercream and add realistic hair OR fondant, I guess?? So she just did a tiny piping pattern all over. Very odd.

Flowerpower23 · 15/10/2021 19:27

Quite honestly, you all need to get a grip. A 4 year old/ nine year old getting £110+ cakes Confused and the first thing she says is that it looks nothing like your dog! Wow

Flowerpower23 · 15/10/2021 19:28

@Haffdonga

If you really want something like the photo you could just eat the dog.
Grin
EspressoDoubleShot · 15/10/2021 19:30

@Notwhatiimagined

I don’t think dd will eat the head if it’s like those Rice Krispy square sticky bars as she doesn’t like them.

I shall let you know how it tastes tomorrow if anyone is interested.

I’ve no intention of asking for a partial refund etc I will just learn from this

What will you learn?that dogs aren’t an aesthetic for a cake?it’s creepy to eat the dog?
FrenchBulldogsareFab · 15/10/2021 19:30

@Trinidading3

Here's my homemade Portal 2 cake 1st time I baked it. I would ask for a refund and bake it yourself! They have ripped you off.....Flowers
Fantastic cake I'd take over any professional one. You made it yourself and that puts it's value beyond any price. Bet it tasted good too.
Thingaling · 15/10/2021 19:32

@raisedbypangolins

You are SO right about cake baking. I made a massively ambitious cake a few years ago for a DC. It looked good and everyone went “Wow you should do this for a living” and I thought NO. It took bloody hours and hours - product sourcing, baking, construction and decoration - at least three days. I don’t want to think about what I spent on butter which is ridiculously expensive and you need loads of it. And then you get some CF saying “please can you make me one like it for £50”? No.

Basically, if you can’t afford more than a M&S Colin the caterpillar then don’t expect any more than a Colin the caterpillar.

Cap89 · 15/10/2021 19:33

@RaisedByPangolins totally with you on every point. I constantly have to remind myself that people just have no concept of the money, time and skill involved in cake making. I am so thankful for the clients who understand and appreciate the art!

Lonelymum21 · 15/10/2021 19:33

Op at least you didn't get this monstrosity that some talentless person made for my daughters 1st birthday!

(it was me Grin)

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NumberTheory · 15/10/2021 19:34

@Flowerpower23

Quite honestly, you all need to get a grip. A 4 year old/ nine year old getting £110+ cakes Confused and the first thing she says is that it looks nothing like your dog! Wow
What is wrong with a child who is asked what she wants and presumably told she is getting it noting that it isn't what she asked for? Is everything in life supposed to be a training ground for being gaslighted?

She had the grace to say she liked it regardless.

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