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Terrified going into work this week

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Rubiconmangojuice · 12/10/2021 20:45

I reported a colleague this week following advice on here and from my partner.
She had a short temper with me, would get frustrated and snap if I didn’t do something to her liking or get it correct right away.
She shouted at me once in front of a service user and would often have an exasperated tone when asking me to do things. She snatched things from me a couple of times or would just tut, say ‘Oh God” or ‘what ARE you doing?’
She wasn’t always like this but it happened at least every week.
The worst though was speaking rudely to vulnerable service users, she told a 90 year old woman to shut up, and often got irritated towards a man with Alzheimer’s.

This has been going on for around 2 months. Anyway I reported to my job, requesting that it be anonymous and asking if I can be paired with another colleague or moved to another area.

I was told by the management today that she has been called in today for investigation.

I am supposed to be working with her all day this week.
I feel terrified, I know it was the right thing to report her for my sake but most importantly for the service users.

It might just be directed towards me personally, I would just rather move to another area or let her work with someone else. Even if it’s anonymous there’s a high chance she will know it’s me and I just feel so stressed and guilty.

It’s the kind of job where it’s just you and them working together, so it’s not like I can avoid her.
Almost feel like not going into work, it sounds pathetic I know. What advice could anyone offer me?

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GoWalkabout · 13/10/2021 11:07

I am so impressed that you have reported her, think of all those scandals of poor treatment where other staff didn't speak up. You have given your bosses the opportunity to act correctly and her to improve, if she doesn't she is not fit. You have the power, even if it doesn't feel like it. Act normal and professional and don't be drawn into anything. Have a few phrases ready like 'I don't know anything about that' or 'I'm not aware of that process' or just keep saying let's get on with our work. Keep a log of any conversations and incidents contemporaneously.

Rubiconmangojuice · 13/10/2021 14:01

Thanks a lot everyone, I feel better and that I have made the right decision.

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