So I’ve posted about this yesterday but I need some clarification because I seem to doubt myself a lot these days. I can’t ask my friends because I am embarrassed.
My baby was ill and in hospital due to his first febrile seizure, he had a high temperature and was not very well. His dad and I don’t live together but are in the process of sorting things out. Or we were. Anyway he sat with us at the hospital for a while but it was a one parent only in so I took our son, I told him he may as well go home because it will be hours. I didn’t get home until the early hours with 0 sleep. Whilst I was at the hospital he told me he may go out Sunday evening. I just said so you’re going to leave me here at the hospital 0 sleep and go out. He just got annoyed.
Our son is okay still under the weather. He checked in with us all morning and then told me he’s going out. He went out, he didn’t come to see our baby, he didnt offer to come over instead of going out. My family asked where he was and I had to lie because I was embarrassed that he wasn’t here. I wouldn’t of been able to leave the baby. I know they are common but he still is poorly and I was running on 0 sleep. AIBU to say any normal person wouldn’t leave their child