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We are now being called bodies with vaginas by one of the top medical journals in the land

477 replies

JustcameoutGC · 25/09/2021 07:38

YANBU the word is woman
YABU shut up VAGINA haver

This will probably get shunted back to the naughty corner. But this is something women need to know. Coming soon to a GP surgery near you. As a vagina haver you may be invited for a cervical smear.

This is what the erasure of women looks like. Splayed on the front cover of the journal read by every medic in the land.

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Jellycatspyjamas · 25/09/2021 16:19

Surely the correct wording though would be “women and trans men”, given that trans women don’t have the biology needed to menstruate. Which would exclude trans women, and highlight that they aren’t, in fact, women by virtue of biology, not bigotry.

Naunet · 25/09/2021 16:20

@Jellycatspyjamas

Surely the correct wording though would be “women and trans men”, given that trans women don’t have the biology needed to menstruate. Which would exclude trans women, and highlight that they aren’t, in fact, women by virtue of biology, not bigotry.
We’re not allowed to use the word woman anymore, unless it’s inclusive of men.
Igmum · 25/09/2021 16:21

YADNBU. I can't vote because I'm on the app but this is ludicrous and offensive. There was a movement against the traditional 1940s medics who referred to patients as the bits of the anatomy they were treating. Quite rightly because such language stops medics seeing patients as human. It's back now but only for women.

DrSbaitso · 25/09/2021 16:30

@amijustparanoidorjuststoned

Here we go with the trans bashing again.

Nobody is trying to erase women. They are trying to be inclusive of women who are trapped in men's bodies, and men who are trapped in women's bodies. It is also fine to not know which gender you fit in to and to be non-binary.

There, fixed it for you.

To answer your question: you're just stoned.
MumYourBabyGrewUpToBeACowboy · 25/09/2021 16:31

I think it would be more inclusive to refer to ‘vagina’ as ‘penis hole’ or ‘scissor hinge’

ufucoffee · 25/09/2021 16:45

@amijustparanoidorjuststoned

Here we go with the trans bashing again.

Nobody is trying to erase women. They are trying to be inclusive of women who are trapped in men's bodies, and men who are trapped in women's bodies. It is also fine to not know which gender you fit in to and to be non-binary.

There, fixed it for you.

Why?
UnfinishedBunting · 25/09/2021 17:30

Yes, I was wondering about penis hole too. It's time we stopped messing around and got down to the nuts and bolts of the issue.

notawittyname1954 · 25/09/2021 17:30

I have emailed Dr Horton using @MegaGengar's wonderful e mail as my basis because frankly that e mail put everything I would wish to say. I did address him as Dr Horton or should I say body with a penis. I am really demeaned by being a slab of meat with an orifice.

notawittyname1954 · 25/09/2021 17:39

@UnfinishedBunting conversely then in the interests of fairness a penis should be a vagina cork

ErrolTheDragon · 25/09/2021 17:54

YANBU.

That quote on the cover, out of context, is crass and demeaning of women. And really nothing at all to do with 'inclusivity'. Why do some people insist on making every issue pertaining to women's rights and dignity about something else?Hmm

littlbrowndog · 25/09/2021 17:59

Men get to keep the word men. Bodies with vaginas 🤦‍♀️

We are now being called bodies with vaginas by one of the top medical journals in the land
littlbrowndog · 25/09/2021 17:59

Bodies with vaginas

We are now being called bodies with vaginas by one of the top medical journals in the land
MegaGengar · 25/09/2021 18:11

@notawittyname1954

I have emailed Dr Horton using *@MegaGengar*'s wonderful e mail as my basis because frankly that e mail put everything I would wish to say. I did address him as Dr Horton or should I say body with a penis. I am really demeaned by being a slab of meat with an orifice.
Glad you have also emailed, and really hope that many of the people on this thread who are similarly appalled at this article also take the time to email their thoughts too. It really is demeaning and I just don't know how any editor could have thought "bodies with vaginas" would EVER be ok to print.
MushMonster · 25/09/2021 18:18

They can use women and other bodies with vaginas.
I would be ok with it.
I am a woman and I will always be.
I have no issue with anyone who wants to transition into a woman because that is who they are in the inside. Or into a man. But I am tired of this language debate, to be honest.

334bu · 25/09/2021 18:26

amijustparanoidorjuststoned

Here we go with the trans bashing again.

Why would complaining about the demeaning of women by reducing us to our body parts have anything to do with "trans bashing"?
Sometimes things are just about women being angry about women getting " pissed" on yet again.

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 25/09/2021 18:29

@amijustparanoidorjuststoned

Here we go with the trans bashing again.

Nobody is trying to erase women. They are trying to be inclusive of women who are trapped in men's bodies, and men who are trapped in women's bodies. It is also fine to not know which gender you fit in to and to be non-binary.

There, fixed it for you.

Why, exactly, is objecting to the attitude that 'woman' is some kind of dirty word, to be redacted at every turn, or to find offensive the reduction of human beings to mere anatomy, bodily functions and the fact that we are 'bleeders', 'trans phobic?'

Why are female human beings apparently offensive to trans people, merely by virtue of our very existence?

Please, do tell me. I might learn something.

notawittyname1954 · 25/09/2021 18:30

@MushMonster I totally agree I have no issue with anyone who wants to transition and it upsets me that anyone who wishes to be seen as a woman is a transphobe.

LolaLouLou · 25/09/2021 18:30

YANBU

RVN123 · 25/09/2021 18:33

@amijustparanoidorjuststoned

Here we go with the trans bashing again.

Nobody is trying to erase women. They are trying to be inclusive of women who are trapped in men's bodies, and men who are trapped in women's bodies. It is also fine to not know which gender you fit in to and to be non-binary.

There, fixed it for you.

There are no woman trapped in men's bodies. There are no men trapped in women's bodies.

There ARE people who feel like they have some kind of disconnect between their physical body and their inner self, but how can they know they are 'really' female (or vice versa) given that they have never been that thing, and therefore can never know what it is like to BE male or female?

What you are talking about is a belief system, not fact.
Scientific fact states that men reside in male bodes, and females reside in female bodies.
I believe in provable, scientific, immutable, unchangeable human sex.
Not in a quasi religious system of self identification.

There.
Fixed it for you.

Yogsgirl · 25/09/2021 18:42

100% agree with you @RVN123

MrsTesfaye · 25/09/2021 19:01

There ARE people who feel like they have some kind of disconnect between their physical body and their inner self

They need therapy.

Itsanewdah · 25/09/2021 19:08

I’m biologically female with a vagina. I’m categorically NOT a woman. I’m also not a transman. I’m nonbinary, always have been (over 40 years now, so a bloody long “phase”).
We are so much more than our bodies (have a look at society, biological differences explain almost none of the societal differences).

VelvetChairGirl · 25/09/2021 19:10

They can fuck right off and if they want to play that game we should all play along and call everyone a penis owner or a vagina owner there are no other descriptions, that'll render self ID completely and utterly redundant over night.

IHateCoronavirus · 25/09/2021 19:11

A body with a vagina. It sounds so bloody violent Angry

beastlyslumber · 25/09/2021 19:26

YANBU. It is so dehumanising. Are they even talking about humans? Bodies with vaginas could be cows, whales, any female mammals.

Honestly I find it quite frightening. It's exactly how the taliban think of women: bodies with vaginas. Not humans. Just bodies.

Really quite upset about this.