N/c for this. Off and on over the years I’ve caught my partner lurking beside me whilst I’m sleeping. Sometimes he’s stood over me staring and other times he seems to be fiddling about - there’s nothing that belongs to him in the drawers etc. When I’ve asked him later what he was doing he’ll often flatly deny he was there.
Two nights ago he turned my bedside lamp on and then ran off to the bathroom…it’s odd because he has a lamp which is easy enough to switch on. So I asked him and he got very annoyed and claimed he was nowhere near my side of the bed…there have been times when I’ve found things moved or found my bag opened when it was closed. If I’m totally honest it gives me the creeps if someone’s stood over me whilst I’m sleeping and then denies it.
Aibu to feel uncomfortable? Or am I overreacting?