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things you realised in lockdown that you're surprised you never noticed before??

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NoviceNewMN · 16/09/2021 22:15

Working from home made me realise how low level subtly grindingly misogynistic alot of the men I work with are and how I am undermined every day without ever noticing when I was there - because it comes under the guise of cheerful chat that is blink and you miss it stuff. When you are out of it, life becomes lighter and happier.

I also never noticed exactly how much ££££ I spend on travel.

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stuckdownahole · 19/09/2021 07:05

I learned something that I find worrying. If you put fear into people, authoritarian government can thrive.

The UK's bumbling mess of a PM and his bunch of merry twats created a bunch of illogical and ever-changing rules, and people not only followed them to the letter but eagerly policed and denounced each other. In fact, there were a large contingent who wanted more rules.

Shop staff became gatekeepers who decide when you will be allowed into their establishment and on what terms. It's chafing to be on the wrong end of such a power relationship with people who control access to something that you need, like border guards or doctor's receptionists. Suddenly, I was consciously on my best behaviour a lot more often. You don't dare show a flicker of irritation at the person who puts their arm out to stop you approaching.

We became a much less free society very quickly but many were in favour because they were given sweeteners. No need to come in to the office - in fact for many no need to do your job at all for months, but you can still collect most of your salary. If our government had malign intentions, most people would have been wilfully blind to them.

I fell through the cracks because I'd left a job less than a month before lockdown started and had savings that were earmarked for major repairs to my house. So I got no money whatsoever. It felt like 1984, with the Party workers complacent and obedient in their enclosed environment, and anyone who didn't fit in the system outside the walls.

It wouldn't take much to tip this country, any country, into a dictatorship. That's what I was surprised by.

pinkstripeycat · 19/09/2021 12:25

How much better I was able to feed my family and now I’m back at work it’s all rushed meals again. Makes me so sad

TheGrumpyGoat · 19/09/2021 12:30

@pinkstripeycat

How much better I was able to feed my family and now I’m back at work it’s all rushed meals again. Makes me so sad
Opposite for me. Having 2 primary aged children and a toddler at home while also doing a full time job from home meant we are far more fast food than usual. I had to use my lunch breaks to home school so I didn’t have time to eat properly.
InTheWrongRoom · 19/09/2021 12:55

profpoopsnagle my kids are stalwart consumers of Pom Bears and I have never noticed this little snippet of yours - going to the cupboard now to open a pack and check!!!
What a hoot!

DoveOfPiss · 19/09/2021 13:04

How little my supposed friends have been in contact. I have rung, left messages, texted to no avail. Now I'm like hmm if they can't be arsed, neither can I.
I have two friends who have received and provided support over the last 18 months. I can live with that. Quality over quantity.
I really really want a dog again. My cats don't satisfy this need I have for love and motivation to get out of the house. Maybe I'm just lonely.
My children (19, 16, 14 and 12) have worked really well through home schooling, eldest passed A levels last year and DC2 passed GCSE's this August. I'm so damn proud of them all & so grateful that their MH hasn't suffered like some of their peers.
I graduated with a 2:1 despite home schooling said 4 children, and the work ethic I modelled for them in the 1st lockdown with my uni work served them well in the 2nd when I had started my new job and they were left to get on with it all day every day.

How much shit I have accumulated, how much stuff I buy and how little of it I actually need. I now have 'amazon-free months' where I try not to buy anything.

How much I hate going shopping, I'd much rather go for a walk.

Sorry this is so long Blush

Buggersticks · 19/09/2021 13:14

What a great post, and what truly lovely things most people have discovered ❤️

Stirling2701 · 20/09/2021 11:02

How I don't miss socialising nearly as much as I thought I would at the start of lockdown, and what a relief it is not to have to go out to certain social events.

CornedBeef451 · 20/09/2021 11:28

@theDudesmummy that's really lovely! I hope your son enjoys all his classes.

languagelover96 · 20/09/2021 16:43

French.

pombear4949 · 21/09/2021 08:57

@alphasox How little relationship is left between my husband and I. We get on better when we are both just passing children around and organising life admin.

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totally this. This is all my H and I do now between us.

groovergirl · 22/09/2021 04:28

@languagelover96

French.
Ah bon, c'est super! My DD did an online course with the Alliance Francaise to help her with French at school. She really wants to speak it and to go to Paris. Last week she got A+ for a school test, and she's rapt. This online thing really works!
MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 24/09/2021 20:27

How much I like going into the office and the mind numbing monotony and relentless slog of WFH

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 24/09/2021 20:29

How kind people are and what lovely people live in my street - only took a global pandemic and lockdown to make me realise that

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