Was there ever a plan for financially supporting these three offspring without the dole?
This. Of course OP may have suffered some life changing event that pushed her into reliance on benefits, exempting her from this, but that’s not the case for many families.
It shocks me that people have 3 kids without knowing how they’ll support them financially, or plan for things like how they’d cope if one partner left/died/got ill, or shell out a fortune on swimming lessons when they can’t afford basic meds like Ovex (which is available on the NHS btw).
I feel like a lot of people (not everyone obviously) assumes they’ll get enough in UC, tax credits, FSM, housing benefit etc to raise their family so when a benefit is reduced they’re up in arms against the government!
What’s to stop a parent working PT within school hours to bring in extra income, if £20 a week made such a huge difference?
Where’s the budgeting, financial planning, saving? The £20 was always temporary.