Purely on the financial side, I think people who are making a permanent move to residential care need to exhaust all their assets on care fees, with a deprivation of assets rule starting earlier than it does.
I’m not rich, though I’m extremely fortunate that I’ll likely retire with a paid off mortgage and a house worth £250K. So this would affect me.
The state (everyone else, and me now, via tax) should not pay my care so that my children - who have done nothing to earn it - get quarter of a million.
Is it unfair that I get sick or frail and my sister doesn’t, so her kids inherit? Not really. But them’s the breaks. Plenty not fair in life.
Is it fair that I save all my life and my neighbour doesn’t, and I lose mine to care fees? Not really, but again - that’s life. She already gets tax credits that I don’t (and that’s fine by me). You could have a 2 tier system. Quality of care should be equal, but maybe I’ve got a sea view and she doesn’t. Then I’m in the cheaper room when my money runs out. We have these disparities all through life - shitty house shares vs own penthouse. We accept them for in the pre care home years.
I don’t know how to model how that would change behaviour. Would I stay in the smallest house I could, downsize in retirement and spend spend spend? (or outside of the deprivation rule timing, gift gift gift?) Well - good for the economy and good for movement in housing market.
I’m happy to be challenged if the reality is that most people in elderly residential care don’t have many assets and my proposal wouldn’t generate much. But in principle - you need care, I think you pay.
My FIL went into a home in 2019. He and MIL split the house so she wouldn’t lose her home whilst he needed care. All legal, very fair. But my husband has inherited £90K now FIL has died, as he willed his share to his child. In my opinion, the cost of FIL’s care in 2019 should be repaid from that £90K when MIL dies or goes permanently into a home herself.
Why are people squeezed even more on NI, yet my FIL gets free care and my husband gets to pocket £90K that he didn’t earn?