I have been with DP for seven months, things are largely going well. A few hiccups but nothing major.
I am chronically ill, but able to do most things most of the time. I become unwell often as my immune system is crap with things like tonsillitis and chest infections. We currently live 2.5 hours apart so FaceTime a lot, I called him today and told him I had tonsil and he rolled his eyes and said he's lost his patience with me being unwell.
He said its because I've been constantly ill for three months and says I don't rest enough so can't recover. I go out once at the weekend, maybe three times a month and I am a single parent. I rest as much as I can.
I was also attacked in my home almost three months ago by an intruder and when I asked if he would come to be with me (this was when he living five minutes away) and he told me to ask someone else. He said this because we had had a falling out a couple days prior (nothing major) and hadn't been speaking much.
He had an incident at his new place and asked me to be with him for support, I drove the 2.5 hours to be there with him.
It's been a hard year money and health wise, as well as the attack. I have also lost a couple of long-term close friends due to them letting me down. I expressed to him I was stressed and he and he said "what because of the money situation?". And I just felt like: ugh!!!!! How can he be so unaware.
I really care for him and he has so many good qualities. Am I expecting too much from him?