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To have never stripped a hotel bed

127 replies

rockaround · 24/08/2021 10:51

I've just been reading a post on Facebook about a man who always strips his bed before leaving his hotel. There's comment after comment (probably around 95%) of people saying that they always strip the bed too.

I always make sure the room is clean and tidy and I put the towels together but I have never stripped the bed. Does everyone do this and I am a bad guest?

YABU- stop being lazy and strip the bed
YANBU - I don't do this either

OP posts:
Zilla1 · 24/08/2021 11:34

For your own peace of mind, don't.

CounsellorTroi · 24/08/2021 11:34

Neither have I. We don’t strip them in holiday cottages either.

OnTheBenchOfDoom · 24/08/2021 11:34

I used to work in housekeeping, no, no one ever stripped the beds. Used towels in the bath yes, beds? No.

Yarboosucks · 24/08/2021 11:41

I discussed this once with a friend who owns a hotel. This was in the context of disgusting things that happen in hotels and he said that when they come across a stripped bed, they know there is most probably a horrible surprise lurking in them there sheets.....

My mother strips the bed upon arrival and we always teased her about it, until she found a mattress that had a huge blood stain on it.

CounsellorTroi · 24/08/2021 11:43

If we are checking out I don’t see the point of leaving the towels in the bath, they’ll get changed anyway so we just leave them hanging.

Starjammer · 24/08/2021 11:45

@Yarboosucks

I discussed this once with a friend who owns a hotel. This was in the context of disgusting things that happen in hotels and he said that when they come across a stripped bed, they know there is most probably a horrible surprise lurking in them there sheets.....

My mother strips the bed upon arrival and we always teased her about it, until she found a mattress that had a huge blood stain on it.

Yes, my friend used to work in a hotel and told me about the bundle of sheets with a massive turd hiding inside Envy (not envy!)

I would never even think to strip beds in a hotel!

isthisareverse · 24/08/2021 11:49

I don't strip anything when I am a paying customer!

It's a holiday, I am happy to pay for someone to do it.
I don't do the dishes when I eat in a restaurant either, or even carry them back to the kitchen.

It's patronising and a disturbance for everybody.

ColdCottage · 24/08/2021 12:01

Nope. That is very odd.

BiddyPop · 24/08/2021 12:07

Holiday cottage? Yes, always strip and leave in a pile together with towels.

Hotel? No. Never.

And I've worked as housekeeping for a good while in the past, both doing cottages for a Centre Parcs type resort, and in hotels.

It was rare enough that cottage beds were stripped - if I was lucky, I might get 1 every fortnight (I had 4 cottages per week on changeover day and often got asked to help others finish theirs), there was 1 memorable day I had 2 in 1 day (I was on bigger cottages that week so it really made a good difference to me!).

But I only once ever had a hotel bed stripped (and that was when a "lads" room had been trashed, matress was badly stained, bathroom was destroyed and water all over the floor, 1 pillow torn so feathers all over the place....) - so that 1 actually made a lot more work for me ironically.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 24/08/2021 12:14

Never. You pay hotel rates for someone else do do it.

I’ll do it in holiday rentals, though.

TreeSmuggler · 24/08/2021 12:21

Nope, unless it was an air B&B type place and it was specifically requested.

purplesequins · 24/08/2021 12:24

I always do since I spent a night at a place once that very clearly hadn't changed the bedding after the last guest Envy

petridishmystery · 24/08/2021 12:24

Never even occurred to me to strip the bed! I put the towels all together and make sure all my rubbish is in the bin, that kind of thing, I’d never leave the room in a ness but never thought to do anything like strip the bed and I don’t plan to start.

leiaskye · 24/08/2021 12:34

I’ve never done it either.
I wouldn’t stay anywhere that expected it either.
I’m on holiday! I do enough of that crap at home.

Imnothereforthedrama · 24/08/2021 12:36

No unless told I’ve been told to and never in a hotel .

MaMelon · 24/08/2021 12:39

I always do. I used to work as a chambermaid (as we used to be called back in the 80s when sexism abounded) and loved it when people stripped the beds - it made my job so much quicker and nicer (no bogging sheets or pillows to strip off).

Rtmhwales · 24/08/2021 12:40

Was the man North American? I'm Canadian-American and it's more common there I'd say, though not required.

TheRebelle · 24/08/2021 12:40

It makes me think of the type of people who stack their dirty plates in a restaurant, they think they’re being helpful but are probably causing more hassle than if they just let people do their jobs.

MargosKaftan · 24/08/2021 12:41

Nope. Part of what you pay for.

I've never done the dishes in a restaurant after my meal either.

SweatyBetty20 · 24/08/2021 12:44

I did time as a chambermaid and don’t strip the bed. I do turn it right down to air though, plus open the windows, and rubbish in the bin and towels in the bath like previous posters.

crazyguineapiglady · 24/08/2021 12:50

Never - it might make you feel virtuous but it doesn’t help the house keeping staff.

deeplyambivalent · 24/08/2021 12:52

I leave a tip by the bed, but it never occurred to me to strip it.

inappropriateraspberry · 24/08/2021 12:54

Nope.
Different in a holiday cottage, they often ask you to. But never a hotel room! Surely this is what you're paying for?

lovelyupnorth · 24/08/2021 12:56

I stay in hotels most weeks and never have I stripped the bed.

Self-catering - yes at the end of the stay i would strip the bet

PandoraP · 24/08/2021 12:57

In hotel - no
In holiday cottage - yes