Our middle dd is at university and is moving from halls into a privately rented place with some friends. She’s been home over the summer as moved out of halls in June.
Since she signed for the new house with her friends, back in April, we knew that the move in day was Thursday. She’s mentioned this numerous times, and we agreed we’d take her and all her stuff back to her uni city on that day.
Previously they were all in the same catered halls, and so didn’t own any kitchen stuff. Dd has been responsible for buying all of this as we have the room to store it at home before move in. Obviously the other students are paying for it too, we just have it here.
She is the lead tenant, and so she needs to be the one to go and collect the keys. She’s an organised girl and has an appointment booked for 1pm to get the keys.
Her other flatmates are from abroad, and extended their stay in halls to Thursday and so are moving out of one place straight into the other.
Now just a few days before move in, my husband has announced that he can’t do Thursday as he is going to watch a football match.
AIBU to think he is being selfish, and as this has been in the calendar for months, that he can forgo one of his many football matches? He argues that she can go up by train and he will take her stuff up separately, the next day. She’s not happy as she was excited about moving in an decorating, plus we have all the kitchen stuff and bedding here. I’ve told dh that he can pay for her train fair.