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AIBU?

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To be upset/offended by this?

96 replies

paperbaggy · 11/08/2021 21:42

We've just got a tabby kitten and was looking at our local pet shops website and saw it said:

'Whether you have a superb Persian Princess or an ugly old tabby...'

AIBU to be upset and want to say it should be changed?

The word ugly just seems so unnecessary and unkind especially when comparing it to an expensive breed.

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ImprobablePuffin · 11/08/2021 23:39

Sorry I meant my dog

DragonflyFairy · 11/08/2021 23:42

They're not saying tabbies are ugly. They're saying if you happen to have one that is!

But even if they weren't, I would struggle to be offended on my cat's behalf and I love my cat to pieces Grin

VeryQuaintIrene · 11/08/2021 23:53

I am thoroughly enjoying this thread. Personally, I don't think Persians are terribly attractive with those flat faces...

GettingItOutThere · 11/08/2021 23:55

my DearCat is slightly ugly, I wont tell her but I still love her! So yes you are slightly bonkers

aerosocks · 12/08/2021 00:07

I have never seen an ugly tabby. And I'm looking at three of them now.

gamerchick · 12/08/2021 00:09

@Floralnomad

It wouldn’t upset or offend me , it’s obviously just marketing .
Worked, didn't it? Grin
TheBullfinch · 12/08/2021 00:21

I'd assume the pet shop owner is dim that's all.

No cats are ugly.

I think there is a lot of snobbery around pets actually. The cattery I use only posts pictures of its pedigree cats and dogs, I never see my ancient tortoiseshell on there or the other lovely black or none-breed cats.

Jux · 12/08/2021 00:29

Tabbies are the most gorgeous cats apart from jet black. My first cat was a tabby [I was 3yo), and we currently have a tabby, a ginger and a puma; the tabbies are without doubt the most gentle, kind and patient of all domesticated cats. The best cats to have around children.

Kiduknot · 12/08/2021 00:41

It’s probably a bit like Bagpuss, ugly, old and much loved.

Don’t worry about it.

Lalliella · 12/08/2021 00:41

Cats can’t read. You’re a bit batshit!

user1473878824 · 12/08/2021 01:00

I love a tabby cat but Jesus Christ get a grip.

araiwa · 12/08/2021 03:42

@Lalliella

Cats can’t read. You’re a bit batshit!
Neither can many MN posters judging by the responses here
iabvvu · 12/08/2021 04:07

YABU to be upset. All cats are adorable. I have a genuinely objectively ugly cat and people say so but it's endearing and I love her so it doesn't bother me one bit

Eralos · 12/08/2021 06:19

I’m sure your cat is lovely, but the cat doesn’t care what the pet shop owners say. Just move on with your life and don’t sweat the small stuff. I’m sure you have bigger things on your plate?

HeronLanyon · 12/08/2021 06:28

I wouldn’t be annoyed but I would be astonished at the lack of judgment shown by whoever wrote it. A pet shop - wanting to sell to pet owners. Just why on earth would they write that? ‘Ugly old mutt’ ‘ugly old bruiser’ - maybe.
Makes me think it might be a shop geared towards selling glitzy unnecessary pet accessories kind of seeing pets as fashion accessories ?

MrsSkylerWhite · 12/08/2021 06:31

Wouldn’t worry. You know your tabby is beautiful.

SpindleWhorl · 12/08/2021 06:37

I see what you're saying, @HeronLanyon. It seems like shit marketing from a shop that doesn't respect, know or understand its marketplace.

chocolateorangeinhaler · 12/08/2021 06:42

Yes YABVVU.

motherofcatsandbears · 12/08/2021 09:38

NO animal is ugly: it’s humans who are ugly.

TatianaBis · 12/08/2021 11:45

The family word for cats that are a bit strange looking is hoohee.

HeyDemonsItsYaGirl · 12/08/2021 12:42

Bless you. I have an ex-stray tabby with torn up ears and a stumpy tail, and he's still gorgeous.

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