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To be upset/offended by this?

96 replies

paperbaggy · 11/08/2021 21:42

We've just got a tabby kitten and was looking at our local pet shops website and saw it said:

'Whether you have a superb Persian Princess or an ugly old tabby...'

AIBU to be upset and want to say it should be changed?

The word ugly just seems so unnecessary and unkind especially when comparing it to an expensive breed.

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Confusedandshaken · 11/08/2021 22:45

Tabbies are the prettiest cats of all. Like tiny tigers. But YABU to be offended on behalf of a cat whose feelings will not be hurt by the marketing speak of a more human.

AngryWhompingWillow · 11/08/2021 22:46

@paperbaggy

That's rude. And tabbies are gorgeous, so in addition to rude, it's also bollocks to say they are ugly.

Persians are gorgeous too, but to promote them by berating a tabby cat is pathetic.

AngryWhompingWillow · 11/08/2021 22:46

@Ghosttile A tabby with a torn ear would not be ugly.

WhoWants2Know · 11/08/2021 22:49

I think it's possible for any breed of cat to become old and ugly (including tabbies) so the statement wouldn't bother me. But then, I quite like an ugly old cat.

Ghosttile · 11/08/2021 22:49

I’m not judging a cat beauty contest, I’m just giving the full quote from the website. The OP left a bit out.

AngryWhompingWillow · 11/08/2021 22:49

@hulahooper2

Personally I think all cats are ugly , horrible creatures
I hear that all the cat are not a fan of you either.
AngryWhompingWillow · 11/08/2021 22:49

@hulahooper2

Personally I think all cats are ugly , horrible creatures
I hear that all the cats are not fans of you either.
Greystray · 11/08/2021 22:50

It wouldn’t upset or offend me , it’s obviously just marketing

Not smart marketing. I'd bet a tenner that there are more local tabby owners than persian owners.

TatianaBis · 11/08/2021 22:51

I couldn’t cough up a fur ball over this tbh.

qualitygirl · 11/08/2021 22:51

Really OP?? Really though...? Confused

HeddaGarbled · 11/08/2021 22:52

*But what the website actually says is

’whether you have a superb persian princess or an ugly old tabby with a torn ear and huge personality’*

It’s almost as if someone who’s a bit bored was trying to find something, anything, to get into a fake snit about. Extra points for kitten content.

AngryWhompingWillow · 11/08/2021 22:53

@WhoWants2Know

I think it's possible for any breed of cat to become old and ugly (including tabbies) so the statement wouldn't bother me. But then, I quite like an ugly old cat.
I have yet to see an ugly 'old' cat.

THESE cats are 17-19 years old.

Are they ugly?

Are they hell! They're gorgeous.

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TableNiner · 11/08/2021 22:54

Bit mean to pick on tabbies, also just cos you’re old doesn’t make you ugly - but I wouldn’t be too offended. Just bad writing.

drpet49 · 11/08/2021 22:55

* No I wouldn’t be offended. One persons opinion isn’t going to upset me or get me annoyed.*

^This

YesIReallyDoLikeRootBeer · 11/08/2021 22:55

I'm so confused how so many of you think it is saying ALL tabbies are ugly. It's saying if you happen to HAVE an old, ugly one (and yes it IS possible for even a tabby to become old and ugly).

mummysherlock · 11/08/2021 22:56

Well fortunately for them cats can’t read so none of our feline friends are going to understand and be offended by this sign.
As for humans being offended by it, I wish my life was so simple and uncomplicated that I had time to give this sign any thought.

WhoWants2Know · 11/08/2021 22:56

Twins

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AngryWhompingWillow · 11/08/2021 23:00

@mummysherlock

Well fortunately for them cats can’t read so none of our feline friends are going to understand and be offended by this sign. As for humans being offended by it, I wish my life was so simple and uncomplicated that I had time to give this sign any thought.
I am not offended by it. I just think it's stupid.
BrilliantBetty · 11/08/2021 23:04

How rude. Tabby cats are so sweet and very pretty. Not ugly at all especially not that gorgeous kitten OP! How lovely he is

Mrssmithscrisps · 11/08/2021 23:12

whether you have a superb persian princess or an ugly old tabby with a torn ear and huge personality’
They did not need to add ugly to the sentence. You don’t call people’s pets ugly, even if they are. especially if you’re trying to sell them something.

Plumtree391 · 11/08/2021 23:18

I too would be offended by that.

Tabbies are lovely.

Beeinalily · 11/08/2021 23:18

That would put me right off the shop! And I've never ever seen an ugly cat, they're all drop dead gorgeous.

FuzzyClutter · 11/08/2021 23:21

My tabby kitten would strongly disagree 😁

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AngryWhompingWillow · 11/08/2021 23:34

@FuzzyClutter

My tabby kitten would strongly disagree 😁
FWUFF-EEEEEEEEEE! Grin
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ImprobablePuffin · 11/08/2021 23:37

I was going to say YABU but then I remembered how affronted I was when the vet wrote his colour down as brown when he's is clearly golden. So yeah I dunno 😂

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