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To be upset/offended by this?

96 replies

paperbaggy · 11/08/2021 21:42

We've just got a tabby kitten and was looking at our local pet shops website and saw it said:

'Whether you have a superb Persian Princess or an ugly old tabby...'

AIBU to be upset and want to say it should be changed?

The word ugly just seems so unnecessary and unkind especially when comparing it to an expensive breed.

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EwwwCoffee · 11/08/2021 22:07

It’s a stupid marketing strategy, not least because there are lots more of us with (incredibly gorgeous) tabbies than Persians, so writing something which could alienate potential customers is just weird business practice. Or has negging crept in there now too??

Either way, YANBU to be annoyed, but offended might be taking it a wee bit far. You can point it out to them if you want, but you can also decide to just not shop there.

steff13 · 11/08/2021 22:10

I wouldn't assume that "ugly old tabby," means that any old tabby is ugly. But certainly some are. Just like some Persians are beautiful and some are not as much.

Regardless, if your cat read the sign and is offended, YANBU. If not, YABU.

RolloTomassi · 11/08/2021 22:11

Honestly, who cares? It's just one opinion, it's your problem if you allow it to ruin your day. I think tabbies are gorgeous.

ViciousJackdaw · 11/08/2021 22:11

Is the tabby a PFC by any chance?

powershowerforanhour · 11/08/2021 22:11

m.facebook.com/groups/cruffa/

FatCatThinCat · 11/08/2021 22:12

@Theunamedcat

Tabbys are supreme only surpassed (slightly) by my current black panthers
I believe black cats are actually tabbys in dsiguise. In the right light you can sometimes see 'shadows' of their stripes.
MargaretThursday · 11/08/2021 22:12

Make sure your cat doesn't read it.

Igmum · 11/08/2021 22:13

I've owned been the house servant for tabbies. They are gorgeous. There's also a fair few of them so suspect that shop's takings on cat food sales are going down. Not sparkling marketing guys. The tabby pound is real.

ClemDanFango · 11/08/2021 22:14

I doubt your cat gives two fucks so why do you?

AtrociousCircumstance · 11/08/2021 22:15

It’s spectacularly stupid. No cat is ugly and the distinction between breeds is purrile puerile. It’s obviously someone trying to be jaunty and light hearted but it’s a fail.

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 11/08/2021 22:19

I have a (rescue) standard black and white moggy and I, too, would take exception to that nonsense. All cats are best cats.

Ideasplease322 · 11/08/2021 22:26

I love tabbies 😻

HunkyPunk · 11/08/2021 22:32

They should substitute 'common' for 'ugly', if thats the angle they're going for. 'Ugly' is an ugly word. YANBU.

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 11/08/2021 22:32
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FortunesFave · 11/08/2021 22:33

It's just bad copy....some old cats ARE ugly. I'd have written something like "Whether you have a show cat or a moggy" instead.

paperbaggy · 11/08/2021 22:34

Obviously the cat doesn't care and it hasn't ruined my day. I will still shop there. It surprised a pet website trying to gain customers would call a cat ugly,
He's definitely not ugly

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JumpJumpSlide · 11/08/2021 22:34

Say what?! Shock

I wouldn't be offended, but whoever wrote that may need to rethink their wording Wink

Pictures attached to prove that all tabby cats aren't ugly! I may be biased...

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TroysMammy · 11/08/2021 22:35

My cat has some tabby markings but mainly white. He's porky and likes rolling around in dirt and I called him a chubster grubster this evening. My DP was offended on behalf of the cat.

Wineandroses3 · 11/08/2021 22:35

No I would not be ‘upset’ or ‘offended’ by that. I suggest you go and find a shop that sells grips and get one.

SisterBeaverhausen · 11/08/2021 22:37

Tabbies are far from ugly. But I wouldn't be offended. Think it's because they're more of a "common" cat rather than one of these fancy pedigrees. My tabby knows she's gorgeous.

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BertramLacey · 11/08/2021 22:37

or restrict their access to the internet so they don't see the website?

God, can you imagine the chaos an internet savvy tabby could wreak? Imagine how many tins of tuna you'd end up having delivered. And then they'd go off it and send it back.

FudgeFlake · 11/08/2021 22:38

Tit head pet shop owner has successfully offended quite a lot of clients. Genuine cat minded people know all cats are amazing, and different, and official breed has nothing to do with it.

hulahooper2 · 11/08/2021 22:38

Personally I think all cats are ugly , horrible creatures

BertramLacey · 11/08/2021 22:39

Point out to whoever wrote the post that Persians can also be tabbies, it'll be fun catorcat.com/tabby-persian/

Ghosttile · 11/08/2021 22:44

But what the website actually says is

’whether you have a superb persian princess or an ugly old tabby with a torn ear and huge personality’