Dd3 has recently come back from a week away with exp, she came back completely regressed - potty training, speech (although this was already delayed since contact started again), sleep with him admitting it was while in his care! She is back with him for another week and I suggested that instead of only one video call we increase this to two or three in order to help with any anxiety she may feel and to ensure there isn’t further regressions, even spoke to the health visitor whom suggest more than one phone call would help mitigate such behaviour.
Ex said no he isn’t considering more phone calls, he isn’t going to suggest other ways to support her development.. simply put she has to put up and deal with it and if I raise any concerns he will take me back to court, not the first time he has threatened this.
Am I being unreasonable in even suggesting anything to help dd? At no point did I suggest stopping contact or reducing just that we both help support dd, but his decision is still no it will be one