Background-I live a good hour away from my best friend and his girlfriend. I've been close friends with him for over a decade and known her for as long, but they've been together about 3 years. We're all close now and get on great.
He earns more than three times as much as me (relevant to a point?) And his girlfriend gave me a load of clothes recently for which she would not accept money. They don't live together-and she is younger than me, so since then I told her I'd buy her a few drinks whenever we got together (again, maybe relevant).
We're not lushes by any stretch but our get togethers every couple of months usually involve booze.
Whenever I go to see them, I take whatever i want to drink with me. I'm the last year or so I can think of 2 occasions where I've stayed at his house for a BBQ and I've always taken a bottle of wine for myself. We're a bit too close to see it as a host thing I'd never expect a gift and neither does he.
He has visited here twice but without his girlfriend (due to her work commitments). He has always brought his own drink and also drank mine
Ive never drank his when visiting him (he never has anything in that I like anyway).
So last weekend they both visited. We went for a day out for food and drinks. Came back to mine, and they both had brought nothing with them to drink and drink all mine. He even whinged about my not having got his choice of wine/ciders.
I didn't think much of it at the time but now I'm feeling a bit irked.
Albu? Should i say/do something?
Maybe not take my own to his in future and ask him to get something in that I like? (He'd likely buy one mini bottle and leave me dry) 