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Jerima · 27/07/2021 19:49

My dh has taught all the local children how to ride their bikes over the years.

Our DD2 has said she wants to remove one stabiliser and ride like that for a while until she's ready to remove the other. My DH has said no and says she must remove both at once.

I feel she should learn this way if she wants to and feels comfortable that way as I think she should be in control of how she learns to ride her bike. Also she has SEN and even in school does not learn unless she is in control of what and how she learns.

DH says no. He says that children do not learn to ride a bike when they remove one stabiliser as it defys physics.

I have seen many a child over the years with one stabiliser on their bike but because I can't name them or give specific details of when and where DH does not believe that ANY children have gone round on one stabiliser before. He also believes that once you take both stabilisers off the child has to learn to ride on the path or pavement and NOT grass.

So I am asking did any of your DC ride their bikes on one stabiliser at any time during the process of learning to ride on two wheels? Did it defy the laws of physics and did they come to any harm in doing so.

Or did they go straight from stabilisers to learning on two wheels, which I might add, I believe some children do as well.

OP posts:
billiebeeme · 28/07/2021 11:56

I learned by doing exactly what ur daughter did. I thought this was pretty normal tbh seems not! If it's a comfort to ur daughter let her try it this way. If it's not working or making a difference then you can suggest she takes them both off.

diddl · 28/07/2021 12:00

[quote Jerima]@diddl she didn't manage it she got upset[/quote]
That's a shame-did she not manage any distance at all?

It does sound as if it all turned into a circus!

When my daughter was first trying without stabilisersI wasn't allowed to watch until she could do itGrin

Pr1ncessConsuelaBananahamm0ck · 28/07/2021 15:35

I also learned with one stabilizer.
I leaned on it at first, but as I became more confident, I learned to balance.
My father loosened the screw gradually until it was so wobbly that I could not lean on it any longer. That's when I realized I didn't need it anymore.

dexterslockedintheshedagain · 28/07/2021 19:15

I think you need to listen to your inner mama here, OP. You know your DD better than any of us. It's all very well us agreeing or disagreeing with your husband, at the end of the day everyone learns in their own way. You do what YOU think is right. ❤️

Hankunamatata · 28/07/2021 19:38

Our youngest was like this. We raised the stabilizers right up so they didn't touch ground when riding but held bike when stopped. We never used this method woth other kids as they went from balance bikes to riding. Also we brought dc small frame so he could place both feet nearly flat on the floor for more control

Hankunamatata · 28/07/2021 19:40

Also look at her getting double kick stand. We got voodoo nuzumbi. It's super light and only one set of gears.

knittingaddict · 28/07/2021 20:20

I agree with your husband.

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