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Is this excessive?

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aivilo · 21/07/2021 10:33

We are a family of four - 2 DC (only one of them old enough to eat solids, the other still too young for weaning).

I was having a chat with my sister the other day about eating out. I happened to mention that we tend to go out to a restaurant as a family around 3 times month. Sometimes we will also have a takeaway (sometimes not). So around 3-4 times per month of paying for a meal that is made for us, with a cost of anywhere between £25-£40 per meal depending on takeaway / restaurant.

I'm not talking flashy expensive restaurants, just maybe the local Italian or a Sunday carvery type thing.

My sister was shocked and said that's a lot and that we must have "money to burn". (We don't).

So... is this excessive, or do a lot of families do similar?

OP posts:
Mummadeze · 21/07/2021 18:09

Sounds completely normal to me

Imnothereforthedrama · 21/07/2021 18:11

No most people eat out at weekends or a takeaway so I’d say not . Only if your skint but you say not so it’s nothing to do with her

notmyturnagain · 21/07/2021 18:49

Spend your money how you choose, and enjoy it!

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