To be pi**ed off that dh turned down sex because he's playing a pc game?

[JodieG1]

He wanted sex earlier on but we'd just finished watching a film and I wanted to check my email to see if an order I placed online had been cancelled or not (angel costume for dd's nativity play).

So I go in to the other room and he says I've lost my "window of opportunity", he was half joking with that I think.

It's been about 2 weeks as well as we've all had the flu, that's quite a while for us. I'm feeling a bit put out actually.

lol.....IMO, UABU.

You did exactly the same thing earlier, so why can't he?

And now you're lying in bed on the laptop instead of seducing him???
You did it first.

Opps...meant to be YABU, not U!

Well my reason was more important (costume for dd's play) and I didn't say no! I'm not in bed either I'm in the living room, it's hard to seduce someone when they have headphones on playing an online game shooting people hehe.

Shooting game eh, oh, the romance!! haha
Men are the best!!!

hahaha

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I'd cut off his.....

YABU

WTF does yabu mean? I'm not down with the kids anymore!!!

you are being unreasonable

oops, that was to michellexmx btw!

Oooooh, I get it now.
Thanks x

but you turned him down first right? - poor man.

hi jodie !i think he could have waited 5 minutes whilst you checked your mail....

sorry you have all been sick x

If sex was offered earlier and I turned round to say "hold on a minute I need to check my e-mail" my DH would be most put out - even if you did regard the e-mail as important!

Yeah she obviously wasn't that up for it to put her emails before a jump .

It's your fault

isnt it strange how we can say not know too tired and so on all the time and the one time in a million[that is the statistical rate btw]they are not in the mood we are shocked hurt offended and rejected all in one

six of one, half a dozen of the other. You'll probably have to make an extra effort later .

Well we finally managed it last night lol. I didn't atually tell him I wanted to check my emails and I actually didn't fancy it at that moment as I'd just finished feeding ds2 as well. For the record I NEVER say no to him, very rarely at least because I'm nearly always up for it. It felt, to me at the time, that he was saying no just because I had earlier, I just didn't feel that sexy having just breastfed the baby! I did want to check the email as well but it was mainly not wanting sex right that minute.

Anyway, it's done now.