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AIBU - Falling asleep on sofa?

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GetDownWithTheCygent · 03/07/2021 23:19

So my OH has just had a massive go at me for falling asleep on the sofa, shouting and swearing. I think a complete over reaction but for context, we have a 3 year old DD and I’m 13 weeks pregnant with second child. I wake up early with DD each day, today at 8am, me and DD was out most of the day visiting family and only got home around 5pm. We was also stuck in traffic for an hour which made me more tired and DD did not want to sleep tonight and finally fell asleep about 10. So after coming down from upstairs at 10, I said to my OH that I was really tired today and he said to go to sleep. I felt guilty for going to sleep as we hadn’t seen each other all day or had any time on own together so I suggest watching a TV programme before bed. Anyways towards the end of the programme, I nodded off and he lost his temper and started swearing and shouting at me saying that I was a A hole etc and he had told me go to bed. He also thinks I fell asleep because it was a programme he had chosen and I wouldn’t have fallen asleep if I had chosen something I wanted to watch. AIBU? I just tried to spend sometime with him and it’s ended up in a massive row

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Snugglybuggly · 06/07/2021 00:50

@StarlingsDarlings

He sounds like an absolute arsehole.
This
beentoldcomputersaysno · 06/07/2021 01:55

YANBU with bells on

StrawberryDelight10 · 06/07/2021 02:01

I can't even understand what he's angry about?
That he wanted to spend time with you and you fell asleep? Are you not allowed to be tired? What on earth

Coulddowithanap · 06/07/2021 07:33

Even if you didn't like the same programs as your husband there isn't anything wrong with that. Mine watches some absolute rubbish and he thinks I do too!

None of us if offended when the other falls asleep on the sofa either. That's a regular occuance in our house!

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