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Garden supper this evening. Would it be reasonable to suggest that guests might leave the table for the football?

756 replies

LemonRoses · 03/07/2021 10:12

We have a ten people arriving for supper this evening. We plan to eat on the terrace, with a 7pm start to catch the last of any sunshine. Clearly if they arrive at 7.15, have drinks and warm spiced nuts/olives then sit down to a starter of crab, we’re not going to be serving the entree until well past 8pm.

I don’t know two of the couples. My guess would be that three, maybe four, of the men would want to see the match. I don’t think most of the women would be particularly interested.

My problem is I wasn’t aware there was a football match this evening and I rather suspect some guests will want to see it.

Do we;

  • open the doors so people can pop in and out?
  • suggest those that wish cut their food at table and then eat of their knees with a fork whilst watching the television?
  • suggest we watch together later?
  • not mention to football and hope nobody else does?
  • arrange regular update messages from someone who is watching?

If a match is at 8pm, what time will it finish? Should we defer eating until after the match but add in more substantial canapés?

OP posts:
ScarlettDarling · 04/07/2021 19:08

@Scaredycat87

Your call op re what you want people to know And you’ve been backward about being forward on previous mumsnet threads! Also revealed a fair fee personal details for example your 28 year old go daughter may not not people knowing she likes making frozen biscuits, Disney films and dressing up. Nothing wrong with that of course- but she might not be happy with others knowing
Wow @Scaredycat87 why would you feel the need to read the op’s posting history. Definitely over invested.
VerticalHorizon · 04/07/2021 19:22

It's getting very heated in here.

I see people have been going overboard on the gin infused celery

RealhousewifeofStoke · 04/07/2021 19:24

‘I see people have been going overboard on the gin infused celery’

Are you serving that with nuts?

VerticalHorizon · 04/07/2021 19:26

@RealhousewifeofStoke

‘I see people have been going overboard on the gin infused celery’

Are you serving that with nuts?

Pork scratchings. It's the future!
Frownette · 04/07/2021 19:30

@LemonRoses did you do the pork last night in the end? You're lucky you did it yesterday because if the weather with you is like here the heavens have opened.

Glad it went well, you kept us entertained last night Wink

bargelights · 04/07/2021 19:31

So OP might be the only person on here who is actually telling the truth about their life?

That is the funniest thing I have read on MN in a long time. Grin

restingbitchface30 · 04/07/2021 19:34

I hope your evening went well and your suggestion sounded lovely. However please don’t presume the women won’t enjoy the football. That’s a broad statement to make. I’m a woman and I LOVE the euros.

CandyLeBonBon · 04/07/2021 19:34

I actually think that op's excellent supper menu was directly responsible for the outstanding football result last night!

A lucky supper if you will.

But now, if @LemonRoses doesn't do another supper club delight for the semis it might all end in disaster!

VerticalHorizon · 04/07/2021 19:46

I'm looking forward to Wednesday's Soccer Supper.

Entrees:
A delicate pint of beer designed to ease you into the evening

Main Course:
An dish from distant lands (Leicestershire) referred to as Pukka Pie. The ingredients of which have remained a mystery for decades. A hint of 'sod all' and a touch of 'what the feck?' will leave you yearning for more... literally.

Dessert - A choice of:
LemonRoses herself (soaked in sherry)
Or
Profiteroles a la Euro - 4 chocolate dipped choux balls in the back of the net!

Classica · 04/07/2021 19:50

Ah, you're the poster whose bedroom is in a Parisian hotel.

LemonRoses · 04/07/2021 19:56

@Classica

Ah, you're the poster whose bedroom is in a Parisian hotel.
No, our bedroom is definitely upstairs. I was there a just few moments ago.
OP posts:
MarshaBradyo · 04/07/2021 19:56

@Classica

Ah, you're the poster whose bedroom is in a Parisian hotel.
Really? Is it the same one
Izzydawg · 04/07/2021 19:58

Thanks to @LemonRoses for providing some light relief and reminding us that life is not all sackcloth and ashes. And for extending your hospitality to people new to you 👏🏼👏🏼
And for making me smile 😊 pity mumsnet has so many haters

PattyPan · 04/07/2021 20:03

@Classica do you know how I might find that thread?

Howshouldibehave · 04/07/2021 20:12

[quote PattyPan]@Classica do you know how I might find that thread?[/quote]
Oooh, I remember that thread! Did it get deleted??

bargelights · 04/07/2021 20:14

Oooh, I remember that thread! Did it get deleted??

Nope, it's still there.

MarshaBradyo · 04/07/2021 20:15

So it’s same op? That’s a long running stance

Commitment there

Howshouldibehave · 04/07/2021 20:18

@bargelights

Oooh, I remember that thread! Did it get deleted??

Nope, it's still there.

Can anyone link-is it in classics?
JesusInTheCabbageVan · 04/07/2021 20:20

I can't find it either - I remember it though!

PattyPan · 04/07/2021 20:32

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

SetPhasersTaeMalkie · 04/07/2021 20:35

I remember that thread 😂. There was a picture of a hotel room in Paris and someone claimed it was their actual bedroom.

Classica · 04/07/2021 20:38

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

iklboo · 04/07/2021 20:38

Your call op re what you want people to know
And you’ve been backward about being forward on previous mumsnet threads! Also revealed a fair fee personal details for example your 28 year old go daughter may not not people knowing she likes making frozen biscuits, Disney films and dressing up. Nothing wrong with that of course- but she might not be happy with others knowing

And yet you've shared it all again here.

VerticalHorizon · 04/07/2021 20:49

This thread's feeling very unhealthy.
If what people suspect is true, it's more sad than funny and should be shut down.

Killing · 04/07/2021 21:24

She loves the attention though! You can just tell she's obsessively refreshing the other site she mentioned to check their post about her.

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