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Garden supper this evening. Would it be reasonable to suggest that guests might leave the table for the football?

756 replies

LemonRoses · 03/07/2021 10:12

We have a ten people arriving for supper this evening. We plan to eat on the terrace, with a 7pm start to catch the last of any sunshine. Clearly if they arrive at 7.15, have drinks and warm spiced nuts/olives then sit down to a starter of crab, we’re not going to be serving the entree until well past 8pm.

I don’t know two of the couples. My guess would be that three, maybe four, of the men would want to see the match. I don’t think most of the women would be particularly interested.

My problem is I wasn’t aware there was a football match this evening and I rather suspect some guests will want to see it.

Do we;

  • open the doors so people can pop in and out?
  • suggest those that wish cut their food at table and then eat of their knees with a fork whilst watching the television?
  • suggest we watch together later?
  • not mention to football and hope nobody else does?
  • arrange regular update messages from someone who is watching?

If a match is at 8pm, what time will it finish? Should we defer eating until after the match but add in more substantial canapés?

OP posts:
CandyLeBonBon · 03/07/2021 19:19

@Frownette

Oh my gosh the party's awn now

Hope OP updates

One very much hopes it won't be rained orf!
VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 19:26

@Manzanilla55

What happens if there is rain.
The servants will be called to erect the marquee. Fear not.
SofiaMichelle · 03/07/2021 19:26

I must admit, the pork entrails does sound very good.

Brazilianut · 03/07/2021 19:28

Came on expressly to check for updates on the dinner party Grin

bargelights · 03/07/2021 19:33

Surely the updates won't appear until tomorrow. The OP would not be so uncouth as to update MN during her dinner party/garden supper/football viewing extravaganza.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 03/07/2021 19:36

@minniebin

Where do you live where it isn't raining?

It freezing & drizzling in London

It's a warm.sunny evening in Cambridge
Georgyporky · 03/07/2021 19:37

I'd love to have a fork on a sofa - it's been a long time....

AlwaysLatte · 03/07/2021 19:44

Yes to putting on the televisual feast. And crab sounds perfect - mouldable in ones hands so that it can be launched at the screen ad infinitum when the opposition get near to the goal.

Orchidflower1 · 03/07/2021 19:46

The servants will be called to erect the marquee. Fear not.

Don’t think they’ll be able to erect anything after their warmed nuts!

Have a lovely evening all, particularly @LemonRoses who’s clearly rather fabulous daaarling!

minniebin · 03/07/2021 19:50

It's a warm.sunny evening in Cambridge

Ha, I'm not English so my idea of warm summer weather is probably very different to yours!

SofiaMichelle · 03/07/2021 19:53

@minniebin

It's a warm.sunny evening in Cambridge

Ha, I'm not English so my idea of warm summer weather is probably very different to yours!

I can translate:

It's not raining heavily and it's above freezing.

Grin
Whiskyinajar · 03/07/2021 20:01

Crumbs, you really have an issue here OP.

RealhousewifeofStoke · 03/07/2021 20:02

@LemonRoses

For the record, Entree is local dialect. It’s said nasally, with an estuary accent.
Grin Front it out OP. Always the best tactic when you’ve made a booboo Wink ( That’s local dialect for fuck up Wink)
AuntMargo · 03/07/2021 20:03

ooooh so posh lol

RealhousewifeofStoke · 03/07/2021 20:04

@Manzanilla55

What happens if there is rain.
The hot nuts might get wet Sad
FreezerBird · 03/07/2021 20:06

Hot wet nuts?

No thank you.

Mangomoonlight · 03/07/2021 20:10

Oh to be a fly on this terrace this evening!!

HeronLanyon · 03/07/2021 20:11

Assuming various foodstuffs were spilled there for our first goal ??

BackforGood · 03/07/2021 20:12

It’s a tiny little Victorian terrace we were given years ago.

In my world, people might give someone their old coffee table when they replace it, but I don't know anyone that gets given a house. Grin

Plus, if you have a house that seats 12 for dinner, it can't really be "a tiny little Victorian terrace" - think we need to get trades descriptions in here.

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 20:12

@HeronLanyon

Assuming various foodstuffs were spilled there for our first goal ??
Unlikely - her guests are still trying to work out which team is England.
VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 20:13

Somebody screamed Harry Kane!!! at the party.
They all ran inside to fetch their brollies!

bargelights · 03/07/2021 20:17

@BackforGood

It’s a tiny little Victorian terrace we were given years ago.

In my world, people might give someone their old coffee table when they replace it, but I don't know anyone that gets given a house. Grin

Plus, if you have a house that seats 12 for dinner, it can't really be "a tiny little Victorian terrace" - think we need to get trades descriptions in here.

Oh, the number of tiny little Victorian terraces I've been given over the years. It becomes tiresome after a while.
VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 20:19

Victorian Terrace...

She doesn't mean a house. She actually means a whole terrace!

MrsFlinch · 03/07/2021 20:19

@RosieLemonade

Cherry Pavlova for dessert?
😂
Frownette · 03/07/2021 20:19

IN-GER-LAND

Actually I'd better shut up, there is a Ukrainian in the house...

I'd better go back to the footie to see if anyone else has scored