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Garden supper this evening. Would it be reasonable to suggest that guests might leave the table for the football?

756 replies

LemonRoses · 03/07/2021 10:12

We have a ten people arriving for supper this evening. We plan to eat on the terrace, with a 7pm start to catch the last of any sunshine. Clearly if they arrive at 7.15, have drinks and warm spiced nuts/olives then sit down to a starter of crab, we’re not going to be serving the entree until well past 8pm.

I don’t know two of the couples. My guess would be that three, maybe four, of the men would want to see the match. I don’t think most of the women would be particularly interested.

My problem is I wasn’t aware there was a football match this evening and I rather suspect some guests will want to see it.

Do we;

  • open the doors so people can pop in and out?
  • suggest those that wish cut their food at table and then eat of their knees with a fork whilst watching the television?
  • suggest we watch together later?
  • not mention to football and hope nobody else does?
  • arrange regular update messages from someone who is watching?

If a match is at 8pm, what time will it finish? Should we defer eating until after the match but add in more substantial canapés?

OP posts:
maddiemookins16mum · 03/07/2021 18:16

If you get cancellations at 7pm, DM me your address.

SofiaMichelle · 03/07/2021 18:18

@RamItBunty

Nonplussed about the footy, your foot sounds delicious
Her foot?

🤣

SueSaid · 03/07/2021 18:36

Hope you've got your England footie shirt on op. Make sure you've got some white lightning cider chilling for the guests. Only the best will do.

RamItBunty · 03/07/2021 18:39

Haha, her foot is probably most delicious as is her thoughtfully planned entrees

LoobyLoo515 · 03/07/2021 18:42

Are you Hyacinth Bucket? This is a pure wind-up, obviously!

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 18:42

Toed in the hole? ;-)

catsareme14 · 03/07/2021 18:43

@VerticalHorizon . Spat my wine out laughing at your tray pic . Brilliant post Op . Have a wonderful evening .

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 18:47

Entree clearly translates as entrance.

Misleading. It's the entrance to the main course - which often IS the starter, but not necessarily so. In a 5 course meal, with the 'main' being the 4th dish, the Entree could be the 3rd course.

CallmeHendricks · 03/07/2021 18:48

Can I come round, OP?
I'm home alone this evening and am not interested in football.
I think you sound like a lovely, considerate host.

RamItBunty · 03/07/2021 18:48

@VerticalHorizon

Toed in the hole? ;-)
Haha, that’s a shoe in
PinkTonic · 03/07/2021 18:50

@MaBroon21

Yes, I have firmly believed this is a parody/joke account (although terribly unfunny when she's not chatting shit about being posh) ever since the bedroom photograph incident and the OP brazening it out instead of slinking off in shame at being caught out

No matter how often the account holder changes their it’s always immediately obvious it’s them again.

Yes, stalking couldn’t be less necessary!
Lollycatcatcatlolly · 03/07/2021 18:51

The Bouquet residence, lady of the house speaking!
Does your sister have room for a pony OP?
Wonderful posts, nicely done, brava!

Bellasblankexpression · 03/07/2021 18:52

I was even planning to watch the football but will give it a miss for warm spiced nuts OP

EastWestWhosBest · 03/07/2021 18:53

You have provided a tv for the football in the driver’s room haven’t you? That would be a dreadful oversight if you haven’t.

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 18:56

@RamitBunty

What would you expect of our well heeled op!!

CassandraCross · 03/07/2021 18:57

I've only come on to say a summer fruit cheesecake sundae sounds bloody lovely, do you have a recipe you could share @LemonRoses?

RamItBunty · 03/07/2021 18:57

[quote VerticalHorizon]@RamitBunty

What would you expect of our well heeled op!![/quote]
The op will keep us all on our collective toes

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 19:02

The op will keep us all on our collective toes

Is she serving filet of sole?

CandyLeBonBon · 03/07/2021 19:03

Op I'm a short hop from IOW. I'm willing to slum it if you're a person short due to last minute footy withdrawals

RamItBunty · 03/07/2021 19:04

Op is relaxed you dont need to tippy toe around her

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 19:06

I think she's giving football the boot

RamItBunty · 03/07/2021 19:12

@VerticalHorizon

I think she's giving football the boot
Yes putting her best foot forward
Frownette · 03/07/2021 19:14

Oh my gosh the party's awn now

Hope OP updates

supermoonrising · 03/07/2021 19:15

Save the fancy food for tomorrow and get Dominos in.

Manzanilla55 · 03/07/2021 19:15

What happens if there is rain.

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