[quote CastawayQueen]@Mayaspecialist DP has ASD and prefers the office. Because then he can do a few minutes of ‘small talk’ before excusing himself. He can also talk to people regarding work. Which isn’t very difficult for him.
Now he’s sat alone at home all day. The only option for socialising is to go to an event ‘specifically for socialising’ which he hates and is too intense for him. Few hours straight of social interaction. Unlike work where it’s nice manageable chunks and all v natural to cut off.
I have ADD and am similar….[/quote]
My OH is the same. He hates socialising, parties, etc and can't do small talk. But he loves the office environment as it's basically the only social interaction he gets. He can talk freely with colleagues about work, and will do "small talk" with people on adjoining desks etc about sport, holidays, etc., as he already knows them through work. He hates working from home and where the only social interactions are big office events, such as presentations, christmas parties, conferences, etc. He's almost certainly on the Aspergers spectrum!
Our DS is turning out the same. He's had a miserable year at Uni. No face to face teaching, no seminars, no tutorials, no clubs & societies, gym and sports hall closed for most of the year, etc. The only things that have happened "face to face" has been the parties/socialising in the bars when allowed and in other flats when the bars were closed. He's not interested in drinking and drugs at all so hasn't done any of that. He was planning to do "social" things via the clubs & societies, sports, inter-college competitions (quizzes etc) - none of that has been allowed by the Uni, so the only people he's met have been his flatmates. They've been fine, but he has no common interests with them, none are doing similar courses, none are in to his hobbies, etc., so he's not really done much with them.
All this working from home/online studying etc., is fine for the extraverted socialites who love big gatherings, parties, and have no problem making new friends, but it's a nightmare for the quiet/shy ones who would usually make friends etc in the workplace/classroom/lecture theatre etc.