It's my birthday today and whilst I've had a lovely day with family, I feel quite upset that none of my friends have wished me a happy birthday, not even just a quick text (I don't expect cards or a gift btw). I don't have a huge friendship circle, 3 very close friends who I'm friends with individually. I don't give to receive but maybe this is why I'm feeling upset as I've always made an effort for their birthdays.
Friend 1 - back in April, took her away to a nice hotel and for a meal/drinks. Also bought her an item for her kitchen that she'd wanted for ages but couldn't afford. I can't see how she could of forgotten as she messaged on Friday to ask me what I was doing for my birthday. We'd also made plans last weekend for it but she cancelled at the last minute and never rearranged.
Friend 2 - In all fairness, this friend has been going through a rough time as he's recently split up with his long term partner, however I've really been there for him and supported him a lot through this shitty time. He even stayed with me for 2 weeks last month as he had no where to go after she kicked him out of their flat.
Again, I can't really see how he could of forgotten as I booked the week off work (we also work together) and we only spoke on Thursday about our plans for the weekend.
Now this is the kicker...
Friend 3 - long term friend, spanning over 10 years. We don't see each other often as we're both busy with work, kids etc, but we've always kept in touch. I've always made an effort to drop something off when it's been her or the kids birthday (her sons birthday in May, dropped a voucher off for him). She doesn't drive so I appreciate it's a bit harder for her to do the same for us, not that I'd expect it anyway although it would be nice for my kids. Out of all 3 friends I really can't see how this one could of forgotten... HER SISTERS BIRTHDAY IS ON THE SAME DAY!!! Seriously?? 
I've been feeling quite shitty in general over the last couple of months (which they all know about) and have questioned what I get out of these friendships a few times, as it seems like I'm the one who is always putting in the effort and after today, I feel like I'm ready to just cut them all off. I'm more than happy to be told I'm being unreasonable or a self centred drama queen, but AIBU to at least expect a message, which normally takes 2 seconds to do??