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To be nostalgic for the 90s

112 replies

bodenbeaut · 25/06/2021 22:06

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Tallpaulwho · 25/06/2021 22:23

The 90s had an air of possibility about them. There was a big positive move towards LGBQT rights, and women's rights. Yes the 80s had better music, but 90s music was fantastic too.

Firsttimebuyer1 · 25/06/2021 22:24

Eh. I remember the 90s, I was 4-14. I hated the fashion and the music! I was gutted I missed the 80s, I feel nostalgic for that decade even though I don’t remember itx

Terrylovesyogurt · 25/06/2021 22:24

YANBU

Absolutely the best era. I was at uni in the very early 90s, best times, best music.

Very happy to report my teen DD is a 90s girl at heart, she was born in the wrong era. Watches all the 90s films, goes to gigs by 90s bands, wears the clothes(can't beat a band T). In fact she's a bit peeved that the clothes have now come back in and everyone else is starting to look like her!

Fairyfalls · 25/06/2021 22:25

I'm the same watching Glastonbury and thinking back to euro 96. Best era so many memories so miss those days!

Goingovertosusanshouse · 25/06/2021 22:26

It did feel like a positive, hopeful time. I was 6-16 and honestly felt like I had lots of opportunities ahead of me. Now, at 37, I feel as if I’ve not lived that life I though I would!

Goingovertosusanshouse · 25/06/2021 22:27

Britpop and cool cymru were the soundtrack to my youth. Buying melody maker and NME and writing in to request a poster! Gigs for a tenner and cheap drinks. Oh, now I’m going to make a playlist!

ScribblyBaller · 25/06/2021 22:28

I was looking on Spotify at the Top 100 British chart songs for each year in the 80s and 1987 was certainly very Stock Aitken Waterman heavy but by 1988/89 the charts had changed quite dramatically, house music was exploding, Soul II Soul, Technotronic,

wowhie · 25/06/2021 22:30

SO MUCH GOOD MUSIC IN THE 90s.

Yep Brit pop, pop, drum & bass, dance, garage. I went to some brilliant raves.

ScribblyBaller · 25/06/2021 22:30

I feel like Britpop as a movement was fun but only small number of bands from that era hold up today. I think American indie music of that era better stood the test of time.

ScribblyBaller · 25/06/2021 22:30

But amazing, amazing dance music from the 90s

wowhie · 25/06/2021 22:32

But amazing, amazing dance music from the 90s

Yep.

Itsallabitmeh · 25/06/2021 22:32

Best times of my life 💜 18 in 1996..best years were 91-98, specifically 94/95…the music, fashion, freedom..happy, happy days..if only we could go back.

LadyCatStark · 25/06/2021 22:33

@Terrylovesyogurt

YANBU

Absolutely the best era. I was at uni in the very early 90s, best times, best music.

Very happy to report my teen DD is a 90s girl at heart, she was born in the wrong era. Watches all the 90s films, goes to gigs by 90s bands, wears the clothes(can't beat a band T). In fact she's a bit peeved that the clothes have now come back in and everyone else is starting to look like her!

@Terrylovesyogurt your DD would get on very well with my DS! He’s a full on 90s skater boy, listens to punk rock and watches Friends on repeat. He’s basically me in boy form, 20 years later!
Itsallabitmeh · 25/06/2021 22:33

Brit pop, indie, house music..the clubs and all that went with it…all so good

bitheby · 25/06/2021 22:34

I just watched Glastonbury in the 90s and now I'm watching 1995 on Channel 5. It was when I got into music. I was 18 in 1995. Very nostalgic.

VariantL1130 · 25/06/2021 22:36

Everything felt so optimistic then. Like there was nothing stopping us from making the world an amazing place to live.

9/11 was such a turning point. I wonder what our lives would be like if we hadn't endured everything that came about as a direct result of that attack. Would we be on our way to solving climate change as part of a liberal and fair society?

wowhie · 25/06/2021 22:38

It's weird how it did change in the 00s, we also had the 08 decline.

ZittiEBuoni · 25/06/2021 22:39

I was 21-31 and I found the 90s brilliant (prefer 80s music but being a teen in the 80s was miserable with all the nuclear war, AIDS and Thatcher stuff) - my mistake was in thinking things were going to continue to 'only get better'. In fact, nothing's been as good since.

wowhie · 25/06/2021 22:40

I don't think decades have been as good since but unsure if that's teenage optimism.

hettie · 25/06/2021 22:41

Watching the glasto coverage is great, but literally every generation thinks this Grin You are all turning into your mother's "in my day...."

Bornslippery · 25/06/2021 22:43

Early 90s. Great music, great clubs and great disco biscuits

NotTheCatsWhiskers · 25/06/2021 22:44

I loved the 90s. The music still makes me so nostalgic. I loved Britpop and grunge. It’s the decade I discovered Radiohead and Take That. I was a teenager and have so many memories.

MrsDeaconClaybourne · 25/06/2021 22:46

I listened to a documentary about Euro '96 the other day and it made me so nostalgic. I was a student that summer and it was amazing. The music was fantastic and there was a real sense of optimism. Maybe everyone feels like that about the Era they are young but I think, like the 60s, in the 90s it felt like it coincided with lots of positive social change.

BashfulClam · 25/06/2021 22:48

I feel almost homesick for the 90’s for a home I can’t return to.

YoComoManzanas · 25/06/2021 22:49

Absolute radio 90's is my go to music station, until they put Alanis Morrisette on again. So cringy I used to listen to that crap.
Nostalgia for my teenage years definately. Never really liked 80s music.