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To ask if it’s worth having a holiday in the UK?

399 replies

TigerLils · 23/06/2021 22:16

Right, I’ve coped pretty well so far, the past 16 months has been pretty difficult for many and I feel pretty bad about this but I need a holiday. A change of scenery! Some nice weather chilling food and drinks. Obviously it’s limited where you can go at the moment and we are looking at a staycation perhaps (it’s just me and DP) but everything is booked up or seriously overpriced in the UK.

Not sure if it’s worth it but I’m pretty desperate here… ( I need this for my mental health)

Can any of you recommend places to go for a couples getaway in the UK?

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2Rebecca · 24/06/2021 22:48

Agree that although my Galloway cottage is old we stayed in an eco cottage with modern air source heating a sauna and a turf roof on Islay. Modern self catering cottages are available just like you get old and new hotels

willstarttomorrow · 24/06/2021 22:48

I think you need to 'reframe' it. We travel a lot in the UK and have had some lovely experiences but for me it is rarely a holiday. It is a break but do not get your expectations up. The UK is expensive, has crap weather and poor customer service

For all those 'we always holiday in the UK and you have no imagination' people, stop being so worthy. We have had amazingly cheap breaks in the sun at Eurocamp places in France and Italy. There is no equivalent in the UK where DC have just been able to roam free and make friends from all over Europe. We have soaked up the sun, had amazing food on the terrace and had a bbq every night. The smell of the sea, the different pace, sound of the crickets and just general soundtrack of being abroad really make it a holiday.

We have also got cheap flights to places like Serbia, North Macedonia, Hungary etc so it is not all 'Benidorm'. BUt even if it was- why the snobbery? I spent every childhood holiday in a holiday let somewhere in the UK and as a result have no desire to set foot in National Trust property or ruined castle again. After a while they really blend into one.

HaveringWavering · 24/06/2021 23:37

@NewLifeInTheSouth

The absence of culture shock doesn't mean it's not a holiday though. That may be your preferred holiday but that currently isn't an option.

Absolutely not, and that was my whole point in my previous posts, especially to the person who said they don't consider staying in the UK a proper holiday. We are in agreement on that.

As I said, they are both valid choices, it's just that at the moment people who usually always go abroad are feeling a bit hard done by at having to holiday in the UK. And they shouldn't. There is loads to see and do here too and I think we sometimes forget just how beautiful the UK is when we are busy flying off everywhere else. Just choose a place and an itinerary that isn't completely weather dependent.

I think there is just as much to study anthropologically in the UK as in the… Philippines. How high-handed and culturally blinkered to believe that gawping at people in far off lands makes you more open minded. Does it hell. One of the most irritating things is when people drawl they like to “travel”. Yep. You like a holiday, just like any other schmuck. Stop dressing it up as something superior.

Goodness me, I have touched a nerve haven't I? Don't you get out of Swindon much?

No-one said anything (or indeed 'drawled' anything) about 'gawping at people in far off lands' - you make it sound like visiting a human zoo. Hmm I've not tried to belittle domestic holidays - far from it, so I don't know why you want to take such a tone. Someone here is being high handed but I don't think it's me.

But 'travel broadens the mind' isn't just an empty phrase. It really does, but you can only understand how once you've done it. It doesn't have to be proper 'travel' either/ Just having a couple of holidays somewhere very, very different to what you are used to can be a really enriching experience that makes you feel more connected to the rest of the world and what happens in it.

It's not a question of one thing being 'superior' to the other. They are just very different. Horses for courses.

“A few Celtic Crosses” - You’ve rather brilliantly proven the previous poster’s point that travel overseas doesn’t necessarily broaden the mind - Celtic Crosses and Catholic Crosses are not the same thing.

Pardon me. I'd find neither sort fascinating as you can probably tell. Not my bag. And I have been to Scotland once. Edinburgh for the fringe festival. I may see the rest some day, or maybe I won't. It's not massively high on my list but i am sure it's lovely.

My point was, and still is, that there is very little I could see/eat/experience in the UK as an English person that I would find culturally mind blowing and unlike anything I've experienced before, because even the stuff that's new to me would still feel somewhat safe and familiar.

That does not mean I am not interested in it - I am. One of the things DH and I want to do when we retire is buy a motorhome and tour around all the parts of the UK we've not seen yet. Just go for six months, see it all, then sell the motorhome. But for me it's a substitute for seeing other parts of the world. To a very large extent I would know roughly what to expect in terms of food, culture, religion, language, markets, shops, local customs and etiquette, buildings and historic sites etc. in the UK. That's not a criticism though - just a fact.

There are no doubt thousands of subtle cultural nuances that would go straight over my head in Scotland, Wales and even Yorkshire or Cornwall, (like where I could expect to see Catholic cross versus a celtic cross) but that doesn't make me a narrow minded person. I can't know everything about everywhere and I don't pretend to. But I certainly know more about lots of places and cultures than if I'd spend every holiday returning to the same cottage on the Isle of Wight for 30 years.

Great post.
lynsey91 · 25/06/2021 08:37

@Chickpeasorchips

Self catering holidays in the UK are surely like staying at home but worse Confused You've still got to trudge round Tescos then stay somewhere with sticky carpets and kids moaning the wifi's not as good while you cook dinner with less utensils than usual and then wash up. All at great expense to stay there because this year prices have gone up and it's a rip off.

There are some lovely parts of the UK of course but that's not everyone's idea of a great holiday. It feels like on this thread we're not allowed to want to go abroad! absolutely bizarre

Oh don't be so stupid. There are loads of really nice holiday places and they don't have to cost a fortune.

Me and DH stayed in a cottage in the Peak District last week which was lovely - massive living room with comfy sofas and certainly not a sticky carpet, massive comfortable bed, really good powerful shower, very well equipped kitchen and a gorgeous garden we could sit in.

It was through Airbnb and was £60 a night! Less than most hotels even the budget ones.

NewLifeInTheSouth · 25/06/2021 10:01

Some of the people who champion UK holidays seem to be a bit chippy about travelling abroad and the fact that they seldom or never do it. They seem to want to take a love of foreign travel as a slight on their own choices.

It really doesn't have to be a competition. One is not necessarily better than they other. You are trying to compare UK apples with international oranges and getting cross because oranges are juicier.

IrmaFayLear · 25/06/2021 10:09

I like forrin olidays as much as the next person, but, like others, object to the dismissing of “all of the UK” as, what was it, @NewLifeInTheSouth , “culturally uninteresting” and “all the same”.

Silly sneering behaviour. And ignorant to boot.

TheDevils · 25/06/2021 10:24

@IrmaFayLear

I like forrin olidays as much as the next person, but, like others, object to the dismissing of “all of the UK” as, what was it, *@NewLifeInTheSouth* , “culturally uninteresting” and “all the same”.

Silly sneering behaviour. And ignorant to boot.

Exactly. I love travelling abroad and can't wait to do it again but this awful dismissive attitude towards the Uk is very depressing.

It's possible to like both!

RampantIvy · 25/06/2021 10:32

@IrmaFayLear

I like forrin olidays as much as the next person, but, like others, object to the dismissing of “all of the UK” as, what was it, *@NewLifeInTheSouth* , “culturally uninteresting” and “all the same”.

Silly sneering behaviour. And ignorant to boot.

Well said. I like both equally.

I like lazing around on a sunbed, visiting a volcanic island and ending the day having a delicious meal in a Greek taverna by the beach.

I also like mooching around shops in a pretty town in the UK, visiting a National Trust garden, a walk along a canal and eating in a nice pub in the evening just as much.

Runningupthecurtains · 25/06/2021 10:38

You are trying to compare UK apples with international oranges and getting cross because oranges are juicier.

I love "apples" and "oranges" but the "oh woe me, there are no oranges this year so I can't have any fruit because crab apples are inedible" attitude over looks the existence of apple pie, apple crumble, baked apple, apple juice and load of different eating apples. It's not travel overseas and have lovely mind expanding experiences v "the same cottage on the Isle of Wight for 30 years". Plenty of people go abroad to the same hotel/resort every year and plenty enjoy a different part of the UK each year.
I would love a nice juicy orange right now but there aren't any so I will enjoy my apple crumble and look forward to (hopefully) having an orange next year.

everybodysang · 25/06/2021 11:50

[quote Jins]@everybodysang as a Chester resident it’s got loads of accommodation in all price ranges but it has nothing like the number of attractions as York within the City itself. It’s lovely for a wander and an afternoon exploring the Rows is great.

It is however a fantastic base for exploring this part of the world and is right on the Welsh border with a direct train to Holyhead that makes North Wales accessible.

Chester is ok for a short break but add on a few days and you can see an awful lot[/quote]
thank you so much - I hadn't thought of combining with North Wales, that would be a great trip. I'm going to look into this now...

reluctantbrit · 25/06/2021 12:06

@Chickpeasorchips

Self catering holidays in the UK are surely like staying at home but worse Confused You've still got to trudge round Tescos then stay somewhere with sticky carpets and kids moaning the wifi's not as good while you cook dinner with less utensils than usual and then wash up. All at great expense to stay there because this year prices have gone up and it's a rip off.

There are some lovely parts of the UK of course but that's not everyone's idea of a great holiday. It feels like on this thread we're not allowed to want to go abroad! absolutely bizarre

How ridiculous. You shop and cook as much or as little as you like, I am sure the local cafes and restaurants like customers who prefer eating out.

The only time I had a bad cottage was in France, I do spend money on the house and have one with dishwasher, washing machine, plenty of bedrooms so nobody gets on each others nerves like you do when stuck in a small hotel room sharing with DCs.

We had converted barns, gorgeous city center flats, lots of corporate business customer orientated appartments.

I agree, prices did go up and I always refused to go to Devon/Cornwall in Summer as they were expensive even years ago, staying there last October was absolutely great. though.

It is nothing like staying at home, staying at home means not relaxing because I am staring at the projects I should tackle instead of having a relaxing time.

And I love a holiday abroad.

GlassOnTheLawn · 25/06/2021 12:13

The only U.K. holidays I’ve enjoyed are self catering log cabins near a nice sandy beach. But it’s hit and miss with the weather. Don’t go north (especially the Lakes which have their own micro climate of rain and cloud) if cold wet weather will ruin it for you!

SamW98 · 25/06/2021 12:24

@IrmaFayLear

I like forrin olidays as much as the next person, but, like others, object to the dismissing of “all of the UK” as, what was it, *@NewLifeInTheSouth* , “culturally uninteresting” and “all the same”.

Silly sneering behaviour. And ignorant to boot.

Theres been ridiculous sneering comments both ways. I've seen posts saying those who holiday abroad have no imagination, must have something lacking in their sad lives and various digs about cheap booze, Benidorm and karaoke

Personally, the weather is the biggest factor for my holiday and my idea of bliss is laying round a pool on the less touristy Greek islands. However, I get that might be others idea of hell but we pay our own money and make our own choices.
I really don't get the criticism of others who make different choices or have different priorities with a holiday

MsTSwift · 25/06/2021 13:56

We try and be green so the stay in England brigade win on that front! I just love going somewhere different to my home environment and that is warm. I wish the UK did it for me on the big summer holiday front but it just…doesn’t.

Sometimesonly · 25/06/2021 14:08

I love holidays in the UK . We live abroad and can't visit this year but normally thousands of foreign tourists do. Not sure why they would come if it wasn't a good holiday destination.

lakesummer · 25/06/2021 14:12

I posted in support of UK holidays.

But I also love holidays where the blast of hot air hits you as come off the plane.

I'm less sure about the blast of cold air but my dc are gradually persuading me of the joy of a winter alpine landscape.

I agree that it isn't an either or situation.

womanity · 25/06/2021 15:54

I always holiday in the UK but if I could be abroad after a two hour car trip I’d do that instead. It’s the actual travel bit of travelling that I really cba with.

NewLifeInTheSouth · 25/06/2021 16:37

I like forrin olidays as much as the next person, but, like others, object to the dismissing of “all of the UK” as, what was it, @NewLifeInTheSouth , “culturally uninteresting” and “all the same”.

Silly sneering behaviour. And ignorant to boot.

Completely misquoting me and deliberately misunderstanding my point.

I love "apples" and "oranges" but the "oh woe me, there are no oranges this year so I can't have any fruit because crab apples are inedible" attitude over looks the existence of apple pie, apple crumble, baked apple, apple juice and load of different eating apples. It's not travel overseas and have lovely mind expanding experiences v "the same cottage on the Isle of Wight for 30 years". Plenty of people go abroad to the same hotel/resort every year and plenty enjoy a different part of the UK each year.
I would love a nice juicy orange right now but there aren't any so I will enjoy my apple crumble and look forward to (hopefully) having an orange next year.

And that was my point!

EllieHJ · 25/06/2021 17:22

You need to consider the Channel Islands. I have a soft spot for Guernsey though. Give them a look.

Eatdrinkbemerry · 25/06/2021 17:27

@marmitegirl01- we did York a few years ago. It’s was so fab, absolutely loved it. Loads to do and see. We had great weather and such lovely restaurants for dinner and lunch also. We stayed in a flat.

lazylinguist · 25/06/2021 17:33

But I also love holidays where the blast of hot air hits you as come off the plane.

See I'm not a big fan of really hot weather at all, even if all wanted to do was lie by a pool (which I don't). I love travelling abroad (though I don't do it often), but if I'm going somewhere to Spain, Greece etc I definitely want to got at Easter, not in August!

joles12 · 25/06/2021 17:35

There are so many amazing places to go in the U.K. , and with Airbnb, Vrbo and the like there are some great places to stay. Outside of school holidays prices are lower . As previous posters have said just know that it could rain so you need a plan B. Think about whatvyou might enjoy, theatre, walking, history , sporting activities - we are really lucky here - the only thing we lack is guaranteed sun ☀️

Youneverknowwhatyourgonnaget · 25/06/2021 17:36

Book the week off from work and book a holiday abroad the week before. I couldnt pay U.K. prices to end up in the rain all week! If you are vaccinated it sounds like in a few weeks there will be no quarantine even on amber country’s. Holidays in the U.K. just don’t cut it for me I’m afraid

Rachand23 · 25/06/2021 17:58

UK cruise. Pampered from start to finish. Entertained from start to finish. Food - so much from start to finish.

wooo69 · 25/06/2021 17:58

Literally just back from a week in Suffolk. Me, OH and another couple. We did look at Norfolk and originally Saturday to Saturday, North Suffolk and Friday to Friday about 2/3rds the price. We paid £765 for a 3 bed, 2 bath lodge on a holiday park.

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