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To ask if it’s worth having a holiday in the UK?

399 replies

TigerLils · 23/06/2021 22:16

Right, I’ve coped pretty well so far, the past 16 months has been pretty difficult for many and I feel pretty bad about this but I need a holiday. A change of scenery! Some nice weather chilling food and drinks. Obviously it’s limited where you can go at the moment and we are looking at a staycation perhaps (it’s just me and DP) but everything is booked up or seriously overpriced in the UK.

Not sure if it’s worth it but I’m pretty desperate here… ( I need this for my mental health)

Can any of you recommend places to go for a couples getaway in the UK?

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2Rebecca · 24/06/2021 14:46

Galloway in Scotland is quiet with some lovely scenery and great for walking and cycling. I also love Ardnamurchan but that gets more booked up. Sykes cottages can be good

Whanganui · 24/06/2021 14:46

I was so desperate that I've had several breaks away in the UK in the past few months. We've been to Shrewsbury, Chester, & Hereford, I booked us in to a Premier Inn for a few nights, & we travelled by train. It was quite enjoyable, & there was hardly anyone on the trains. I've not been on holiday in the UK, or travelled by train in years, but it's been OK, & better than nothing.

NewLifeInTheSouth · 24/06/2021 14:50

The absence of culture shock doesn't mean it's not a holiday though. That may be your preferred holiday but that currently isn't an option.

Absolutely not, and that was my whole point in my previous posts, especially to the person who said they don't consider staying in the UK a proper holiday. We are in agreement on that.

As I said, they are both valid choices, it's just that at the moment people who usually always go abroad are feeling a bit hard done by at having to holiday in the UK. And they shouldn't. There is loads to see and do here too and I think we sometimes forget just how beautiful the UK is when we are busy flying off everywhere else. Just choose a place and an itinerary that isn't completely weather dependent.

I think there is just as much to study anthropologically in the UK as in the… Philippines. How high-handed and culturally blinkered to believe that gawping at people in far off lands makes you more open minded. Does it hell. One of the most irritating things is when people drawl they like to “travel”. Yep. You like a holiday, just like any other schmuck. Stop dressing it up as something superior.

Goodness me, I have touched a nerve haven't I? Don't you get out of Swindon much?

No-one said anything (or indeed 'drawled' anything) about 'gawping at people in far off lands' - you make it sound like visiting a human zoo. Hmm I've not tried to belittle domestic holidays - far from it, so I don't know why you want to take such a tone. Someone here is being high handed but I don't think it's me.

But 'travel broadens the mind' isn't just an empty phrase. It really does, but you can only understand how once you've done it. It doesn't have to be proper 'travel' either/ Just having a couple of holidays somewhere very, very different to what you are used to can be a really enriching experience that makes you feel more connected to the rest of the world and what happens in it.

It's not a question of one thing being 'superior' to the other. They are just very different. Horses for courses.

“A few Celtic Crosses” - You’ve rather brilliantly proven the previous poster’s point that travel overseas doesn’t necessarily broaden the mind - Celtic Crosses and Catholic Crosses are not the same thing.

Pardon me. I'd find neither sort fascinating as you can probably tell. Not my bag. And I have been to Scotland once. Edinburgh for the fringe festival. I may see the rest some day, or maybe I won't. It's not massively high on my list but i am sure it's lovely.

My point was, and still is, that there is very little I could see/eat/experience in the UK as an English person that I would find culturally mind blowing and unlike anything I've experienced before, because even the stuff that's new to me would still feel somewhat safe and familiar.

That does not mean I am not interested in it - I am. One of the things DH and I want to do when we retire is buy a motorhome and tour around all the parts of the UK we've not seen yet. Just go for six months, see it all, then sell the motorhome. But for me it's a substitute for seeing other parts of the world. To a very large extent I would know roughly what to expect in terms of food, culture, religion, language, markets, shops, local customs and etiquette, buildings and historic sites etc. in the UK. That's not a criticism though - just a fact.

There are no doubt thousands of subtle cultural nuances that would go straight over my head in Scotland, Wales and even Yorkshire or Cornwall, (like where I could expect to see Catholic cross versus a celtic cross) but that doesn't make me a narrow minded person. I can't know everything about everywhere and I don't pretend to. But I certainly know more about lots of places and cultures than if I'd spend every holiday returning to the same cottage on the Isle of Wight for 30 years.

NewLifeInTheSouth · 24/06/2021 14:51

Absolutely not, and that was my whole point in my previous posts, especially to the person who said they don't consider staying in the UK a proper holiday. We are in agreement on that.

I meant I am in agreement with your first statement, not the person who doesn't consider the UK a proper holiday.

NewLifeInTheSouth · 24/06/2021 14:54

But for me it's a substitute for seeing other parts of the world.

NOT a subsitute, obviously. Oh how I wish for an edit button.

LakieLady · 24/06/2021 15:01

@Livelovebehappy

Wonder if boat holidays still have lots of availability? I remember having a boating holiday on the Norfolk Broads many years ago. Loved it! Particularly great for stopping off at different places along the way. And great if you have a dog you want to take with you.
Boat holidays are fantastic. A friend used to have a Broads sailing boat, and we used to go several times a year. As a consequence, I'm an excellent sailor in light winds, and can get a boat moving if there's the slightest movement in the air, but I'm crap on a boat at sea.

I''ve had a few narrowboat holidays too, and they're wonderful. The boats are pretty quiet, so you get to see lots of wildlife, and they're very civilised - proper shower, flushing toilet, hot running water, full-sized cooker and fridge etc. There's always something that needs doing if you feel like being busy, but mostly it's not important, so you can just chill a lot of the time if there's a group of you.

Blossomtoes · 24/06/2021 15:11

@NewLifeInTheSouth

Many places are much rainier than the UK,, yet you don’t hear people there whining about not being able to go “abrooaaaard”.

Where? Who? How do you know they don't if you don't live there? I imagine the Irish, the Swedes and the Danes moan every bit as much as we do about wanting some sunshine and warmth - possibly more, given their weather.

I can only speak for the Irish but they definitely don’t moan about the rain, they’re so used to it they just get on with it. If it rains, it rains. 🤷‍♀️
takemetomars · 24/06/2021 15:31

@Ravenspeckingontheroof

Saunton Sandshotel. We go every year, it’s our main family holiday and has been for 10 years. Costs a fortune.....but it’s a total break. Can’t imagine not going.counting the days.
My parents favourite hotel. Can't understand why younger people like it. It's terribly stuffy and old fashioned, the bedrooms are awful, the food is dreadful. I'm sure you love it but I wouldn't recommend it to someone who already thinks that UK hols are a rip off as SS hotel is bonkers expensive
IrmaFayLear · 24/06/2021 15:38

@NewLifeInTheSouth - travel clearly didn’t broaden your mind! I’ve never read such silly drivel.

NewLifeInTheSouth · 24/06/2021 15:55

Irma would you care to expand on exactly why it's drivel? I am genuinely interested to know.

Runningupthecurtains · 24/06/2021 16:07

I travelled a fair bit and value UK travel as much as the "proper" travel backpacking far flung lands and the European city breaks and the beach type foreign holidays.
A change is as good as a rest - it's the break from the routine and the same four walls that counts and you can create change by picking something different to your everyday life so if you live in a suburban new build pick a rural cottage if you live in a village go for a city break, if you are from a city go to a coastal village. Britain is so varied that it's easy to find something that is a break from your normal. Tenby isn't Venice and Suffolk isn't Timbuktu but that doesn't mean they don't have anything to offer visitors.

NewLifeInTheSouth · 24/06/2021 16:10

Completely agree with you Running

RampantIvy · 24/06/2021 16:11

And so do I

MsTSwift · 24/06/2021 16:28

Warm words but I would still prefer to go to Venice than to Tenby 😁. Needs must etc

Blossomtoes · 24/06/2021 16:39

@MsTSwift

Warm words but I would still prefer to go to Venice than to Tenby 😁. Needs must etc
Only in the winter, Venice was hell on earth in the summer.
Runningupthecurtains · 24/06/2021 16:40

@MsTSwift

Warm words but I would still prefer to go to Venice than to Tenby 😁. Needs must etc
I must confess I've never been to either - I wouldn't decline either given half the chance but Venice sprang to mind as an iconic travel spot that actually has lots of negatives - very expensive, a bit smelly and often totally overwhelmed with tourists. Those are offset by it beauty and uniqueness.and the fact that the weather might be better than the UK (but there are times when it isn't). But a lot of people seem to be glossing over any negatives of foreign travel and missing the positives of the UK that can offset the potentially dodgy weather.
deplorabelle · 24/06/2021 16:48

Don't strain yourself with a holiday you're not really interested in!

I agree there's a lot of snobbery on this thread about Benidorm and sunbeds. However there's also a lot of miserable face twisting about how it won't be as nice as I'm used to and - horrors - the holiday cottage decor might be dated. One poster who has claimed everywhere in the UK is exactly the same but has not been anywhere in Scotland except the Edinburgh fringe.

I love a holiday as much as the next person, but it seems a bit princessy all this moaning about "not a proper holiday" - be grateful as many people would love to have any kind of holiday at all.

OP serious suggestion, some cruise ships are doing cruises round the British coast. You might not get the weather but I'm guessing you're after a luxury holiday feel and that might fit the bill?

MissChanandlerBong90 · 24/06/2021 16:50

Each to their own but I can’t relate to people saying they hate self-catering. I can’t eat ‘out’ for 3 meals a day for 7 or more days - I’d end up feeling ill. I love eating out but would find it stressful finding somewhere to eat twice a day every day. And the all inclusive buffet is my idea of hell.

lazylinguist · 24/06/2021 16:53

UK holidays are a rip off..overpriced to begin with, you'll gey fleeced while there, shit weather, dog shit on the beaches, no parking anywhere.... I refuse to support British tourism

Confused I don't recognise this description at all. Why do people think so many tourists come on holiday to the UK from their own lovely countries if it's such a shit hole?!

Chickpeasorchips · 24/06/2021 16:54

Self catering holidays in the UK are surely like staying at home but worse Confused You've still got to trudge round Tescos then stay somewhere with sticky carpets and kids moaning the wifi's not as good while you cook dinner with less utensils than usual and then wash up. All at great expense to stay there because this year prices have gone up and it's a rip off.

There are some lovely parts of the UK of course but that's not everyone's idea of a great holiday. It feels like on this thread we're not allowed to want to go abroad! absolutely bizarre

Chickpeasorchips · 24/06/2021 16:55

Why do people think so many tourists come on holiday to the UK from their own lovely countries

Because people like visiting other countries rather than just always staying in their own

Blossomtoes · 24/06/2021 16:57

You’re renting the wrong cottages @Chickpeasorchips. It’s got to be more luxurious than home for us and we only have breakfast there. Fuck cooking on holiday, that’s what restaurants are for.

caringcarer · 24/06/2021 17:02

A lot of self catering cottages are fully booked now but you might still find a Premier Travel Inn or similar for a few days break. It's only for sleeping as we go out everyday and eat out anyway.

TheDevils · 24/06/2021 17:02

Self catering holidays in the UK are surely like staying at home but worse You've still got to trudge round Tescos then stay somewhere with sticky carpets and kids moaning the wifi's not as good while you cook dinner with less utensils than usual and then wash up. All at great expense to stay there because this year prices have gone up and it's a rip off.

You know you can get take aways and eat out!!

Plus there are places that don't have sticky carpets, decent WiFi and a dishwasher!!

We stayed in a gorgeous converted barn during half term and it was stunning!! We went with another family so cooking and cleaning was shared and we ate out and got take aways.

I love going abroad and can't wait to do it again this idea that all UK holidays are shit is ridiculous

Speakuptomakeyourselfheard · 24/06/2021 17:05

Sorry, haven't had time to read the thread, so you may be sorted now, but we have a lovely holiday cottage for two in Pembrokeshire, with a couple of vacancies in August, and September -

www.archerscottageholidays.com

We don't think it's fair to have put prices up just because of the pandemic, so our prices are the same as they would normally be for this time of year. PM me if you're interested.

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