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To ask you to help me find this wooden duck :(

165 replies

OneMamaAndHerGirl · 19/06/2021 18:37

I know it’s not an AIBU but it’s urgent, I’m absolutely gutted.
I have just returned from holiday with my DM and DD and whilst we were there I fell in love with a wooden duck with pink boots painted on and a little scarf around it’s neck. My DM brought the duck as a little surprise for me and I adore it. However Sad my daughters dad has just come to visit my DD and he threw this duck at me and it’s smashed to bits and it’s totally unfixable. Can anybody help me find another one before my DM notices? I’ll post a picture of the said duck albeit smashed to bits.

BTW, my DD never saw or heard anything. His temper is the reason we are not together.

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starfishmummy · 19/06/2021 19:32

@OneMamaAndHerGirl
I'm sure your Mum will understand.
But you could try to mend it - if your Dad is a carpenter he can mix sawdust and wood glue together to make a paste to fill in any little gaps where splinters have gone missing. Then pop "Duckie" on a high shelf and you will be able to enjoy seeing it but not close enough to notice the damage.

WhenISnappedAndFarted · 19/06/2021 19:34

@PerciphonePuma my Mum would want to know if my ex was being abusive like that. When I was in an abusive relationship I was told to tell people what he was abusive just in case.

OneMamaAndHerGirl · 19/06/2021 19:49

[quote WhenISnappedAndFarted]@PerciphonePuma my Mum would want to know if my ex was being abusive like that. When I was in an abusive relationship I was told to tell people what he was abusive just in case.[/quote]
My mom does know he’s abusive it’s not a secret but I’m not upsetting her over this.

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SheilaWilcox · 19/06/2021 19:50

Dunelm Mill and The Range both do wooden ducks.

I'm glad he's an ex. Hope he is dealt with properly by the Police. hope you are feeling okay and have someone to talk to.

SecretKeeper1 · 19/06/2021 19:50

Contact Haven, they will be able to give you the name of the stall holders, even if you have to ring round each one . Really hope you can find a new one.

SecretKeeper1 · 19/06/2021 19:52

Actually, there is a Facebook page called “Haven Devon Cliffs visitors chat” with plenty of people who seem to be there now. I’m sure if you ask, someone will find the stall holder and get the details for you.

FedNlanders · 19/06/2021 20:01

Sounds like dcuk

Arbadacarba · 19/06/2021 20:02

That's so terribly sad. I hope the Power of Mumsnet can find you another little duck, OP.

Sheepareawesome · 19/06/2021 20:02

If you type 'Wooden duck wellies' into google lots come up. Any of these like your one? www.bing.com/search?q=wooden+duck+wellies&cvid=e11bf6a165bd4b5194382eb0e4a45e2c&aqs=edge.0.0j69i57.3142j0j1&pglt=299&FORM=ANNTA1&PC=HCTS

Jigglywobbly · 19/06/2021 20:02

I wonder if you could reach out to one of the sellers on Etsy to replicate the duck. There are similar ones but now same Colours
www.etsy.com/uk/listing/834877686/large-booted-wooden-duck?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=woodwn+duck+woth+pink+boots+with+green+spots&ref=sr_gallery-2-21&organic_search_click=1

Sheepareawesome · 19/06/2021 20:05

This looks a bit similar maybe? www.ebay.co.uk/itm/274803392219?hash=item3ffb8efedb:g:lEAAAOSwJrFgpV3W

Sheepareawesome · 19/06/2021 20:06

Or here? www.ebay.co.uk/itm/274118608069?hash=item3fd2be04c5:g:~eEAAOSwZL5d4BvL

Peachee · 19/06/2021 20:06

I would contact the haven site and see if any of the staff would be nice enough to get you in touch with the market stall trader xx

Zippy1510 · 19/06/2021 20:14

Could it be these? www.mammaduckcompany.co.uk/ribbon-duck

osbertthesyrianhamster · 19/06/2021 20:37

Please, please call the police. I'm so afraid if he throws something else at you next time Sad.

TimeIhadaNameChange · 19/06/2021 20:52

Try Exmouth Community UK FB group. A friend in the area suggested it. You might be able to track down the stall-holder.

Ellmau · 19/06/2021 20:53

What a jerk!

These ducks are on sale in lots of garden centre shops.

SticksAndStoned · 19/06/2021 20:53

@osbertthesyrianhamster

Please, please call the police. I'm so afraid if he throws something else at you next time Sad.
I suggest you click 'see all' and read all ops posts. If you'd read them you'd see she already has.
Maggiesfarm · 19/06/2021 20:57

That was a horribly spiteful for him to do. I'm glad he's your ex, op.

I googled 'wooden duck with pink boots' and there are many of different design. I hope you find THE one.

piefacedClique · 19/06/2021 20:57

Is this it? You could paint the white dots blue

To ask you to help me find this wooden duck :(
Maria1982 · 19/06/2021 21:02

I’m sorry I can’t help with the duck.

I just wanted to say I’m so sorry you are having to live with this - massive hugs for you. And very well done on leaving him.

Fingermoose · 19/06/2021 21:04

This seller on etsy has the same style boots as yours and paints in bespoke colours. Perhaps if you post the scarf and boots to her she can recreate it?

Journeylikenomother · 19/06/2021 21:07

www.dcuk.com/

Perhaps it's one of these? These guys are made in Devon