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Do you find it funny when people trip over?

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Dresssos · 14/06/2021 17:46

I have friends that are, on the whole, generally polite. We are in our 30s. When it comes to a member of our group tripping over though, that all goes to shit and everyone thinks it's bloody hilarious! I remember being at school and if anyone tripped over, they would always be greeted by a "wheeyyyy" and a clap. I genuinely have never found it funny, but wondered what other people think?

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Handsoffstrikesagain · 14/06/2021 22:14

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XenoBitch · 14/06/2021 22:14

[quote SappysCurry]@Justme10

Just out of curiosity …how does someone who is ‘St Johns’’ feel anxious about helping someone in an accident
I would imagine that’s actually the job ?[/quote]
If you actually read my comment, I did say I was able to do those things and then had a breakdown. Life can throw you a curveball, and I was given a massive one.

Justme10 · 14/06/2021 22:14

@SappysCurry if you read her post it says EX so it's not up to me or you to speculate what has happened since then that makes her anxious now.

SappysCurry · 14/06/2021 22:15

@Handsoffstrikesagain

sappy thank you for taking the time to reply :)

Gosh this has become a bit of a bun fight hasn’t it?!

Yep 😂 Come back OP With a 👎
Jahebejrjr · 14/06/2021 22:15

Could everyone please stop haranguing @XenoBitch

SappysCurry · 14/06/2021 22:15

[quote Justme10]@SappysCurry if you read her post it says EX so it's not up to me or you to speculate what has happened since then that makes her anxious now.
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It doesn’t
It says ex nhs

Jahebejrjr · 14/06/2021 22:16

For gods sake @SappysCurry leave the woman alone. This is cruel.

SappysCurry · 14/06/2021 22:16

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Justme10 · 14/06/2021 22:16

@SappysCurry Ex nhs and St. John's
Honestly I think you need to lay off her a bit, she snorts when someone falls over, get over it.

SappysCurry · 14/06/2021 22:17

@Jahebejrjr

For gods sake *@SappysCurry* leave the woman alone. This is cruel.
Oh it’s you again 🤦🏻‍♀️
XenoBitch · 14/06/2021 22:17

[quote Justme10]@XenoBitch We all have different reactions to different situations, sometimes they are inappropriate but that's life.
Your not going out your way to purposely hurt or embarrass anyone. [/quote]
Thanks. I was an ODP.. I took pride in calming down anxious patients. I was a good advocate for them. Nowadays, I can not even advocate for myself. I am under MH crisis service right now, just about avoiding hospital. If I manage to raise a small smile at someone having a tumble, well, sue me. I need all the smiles I can get right now.

WilsonMilson · 14/06/2021 22:17

I absolutely hate to see anyone hurt themselves, and I’ve never found it funny. I also hate watching shows where they show clips of so called funny accidents. I always worry they’ve really hurt themselves.

SappysCurry · 14/06/2021 22:18

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Jahebejrjr · 14/06/2021 22:19
Shock
XenoBitch · 14/06/2021 22:19

@CaptainThe95thRifles

Even St John's Ambulance volunteers can have breakdowns and no longer be able to perform their roles.
I know a paramedic who has such bad anxiety, she is now using a mobility scooter. She can't walk. Only in her late 30s too. Never underestimate what anxiety can do to you. Such a massive waste as she adored her job.
CaptainThe95thRifles · 14/06/2021 22:19

If nearly half the population (of this thread at least) do something, can we really call it weird?

Handsoffstrikesagain · 14/06/2021 22:20

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Justme10 · 14/06/2021 22:20

Too kind and compassionate to laugh at someone falling over but it's totally acceptable to badger someone who does have a chuckle and has said they suffer from anxiety, really nice Hmm

XenoBitch · 14/06/2021 22:20

@Handsoffstrikesagain

xeno I remember reading something about that sort of thing. It’s the brains reaction to trauma I think 🧐 I’ll see if I can find it again x
Thanks. The human brain is weird. I don't know why me, or anyone would get a hard time for a reaction that can't be helped.
Justme10 · 14/06/2021 22:22

@XenoBitch I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you are getting all the help you need Thanks
Take all the laughs you can get and I hope things start to improve for you soon Thanks

CaptainThe95thRifles · 14/06/2021 22:23

That's tragic, @XenoBitch. It's not a job I could do, so I have a great deal of respect for those who can, or have done it.

Nbnbnb · 14/06/2021 22:23

Tripping up, nope.
Tripping, nope.
Slipping and sliding on ice, yep.

But only if they are also laughing at the end. That's part of the humour (for me).

Nbnbnb · 14/06/2021 22:24

Ignore the second line (I'm not tripping!).

Scautish · 14/06/2021 22:27

@XenoBitch

I posted earlier that I sometimes laugh involuntarily when someone falls. I can’t control it. I don’t know why you are being picked on so much for saying the same thing.

It’s a depressing world when so many people try to turn a nuanced debate into something binary when it’s far more complex. As I said before, context is everything; old lady falls down and hits the pavement hard - no laughing - I call Ambulance and keep her warm until it arrives - not funny at all. I fall over in my way to school, rip my trousers completely but not hurt at all. My friend can’t speak for laughing so much - that’s absolutely fine as it was very, very funny.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 14/06/2021 22:28

I know i bailed but I expect @mnhq to do something about the oh so kind @SappysCurry bullying @XenoBitch

Because that kind of behaviour is disgusting and shouldn't be tolerated. As if nood is watching this