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You don’t keep hold of borrowed equipment for months and then get defensive when you are asked for it...

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GordonsAliveAndEatsPies · 31/05/2021 18:25

We leant someone a piece of equipment worth about £150. One of those things that you don’t need to use often so is a pain to buy, but is certainly worth having. They finished using it ages ago but have had it for months and it has taken 3 requests to get it back. A time for it to be returned has now been rearranged with the comment that they would have brought it back if it was urgent. What about returning something because it’s good manners to return something that’s not yours?

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GordonsAliveAndEatsPies · 01/06/2021 13:54

came not same

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Thelnebriati · 01/06/2021 14:03

I have to admire her chutzpah!

Momidge · 01/06/2021 14:16

An idea would be to let any borrowers buy the item off you and you buy it back when they return it Grin

lazylump72 · 01/06/2021 15:48

am so glad you said No to the hints OP. I love that word! Its so easy to use I use it almost daily!!! You had to buy your thing you let them use I could go buy the thing you let them use,Let them go buy the thing you let them use! Lesson learned for next time. NO No NO No NO !!!!!!!! x

OccaChocca · 01/06/2021 16:04

I tend to set deadlines when it goes out. Used to get this all the time at work. It helps to focus the mind!

steppemum · 01/06/2021 17:00

@Momidge

An idea would be to let any borrowers buy the item off you and you buy it back when they return it Grin
Oh the perfect answer to borrowing!

May I borrow your carpet washer?

Yes of course, but I ask for a deposit on all loaned items, returned to you as soon as you give it back. carpet washer deposit is £300.

Oh...OK.... maybe I'll hire one.

CrazyCatsAndKittens · 02/06/2021 06:48

I'm glad you got it back. Hopefully, it works ok.

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